Seriously deluded, or what! 
Dating after lockdown #4 The bar for men is so low it's in hell
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It seems like itSeriously deluded, or what!
I can guarantee this man is neither posh nor richSeriously deluded, or what!
He‘s got too and to confused. And he can’t use spaces. Clearly not posh or well spoken at all.Seriously deluded, or what!
He loves himself far more than anyone else ever could!Seriously deluded, or what!
Can anyone else work out what he finds so ‘lol’ about it too!
Can I ask advice please? I’ve been messaging someone who I think could be quite interesting and he’s just suggested a date which I’d be keen for. Only thing holding me back is he was in an 11 year relationship (married for 8 of that) that finished just before Christmas. Is it too soon? It feels soon.
If your looking for something more serious I’d say it’s too soon
Yeah I wouldn’t go there. Especially if they’re are kids involved!
No kids, but I think my instinct agrees with you. Thanks!
Does it depend on how it ended? It could have been that he checked out of the relationship long before it was officially over, but only agreed to finally end things just before Christmas? On the flip side it could be that things ended awfully and he's still deeply hurting from it.
The only way to find out is to go, but only you'd know if you're willing to gamble that. I respect him for telling you though, some guys could just keep schtum about that and just try and chance it to get what they want from women.
If you’re so rich mate you could afford a suit jacket that does up!Seriously deluded, or what!
Go for it..!
I was with my ex for 13 years, dumped him in the January and met someone new June. Mentally the relationship had been over for years before it was officially over.
Never let them string you along, that’s an alarm bell.
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Urgh he went to my uni. I didn’t think such a respectable institution would let in such deadbeats!
@LaurieLaurie - he’s still married and in my experience, if a person doesn’t take time to be alone and discover themselves then they don’t make great partners. Bear in mind, we’ve been in lockdown for most of his post-break. Why did they break up? Where does he live? Are they planning to divorce? I wouldn’t date until I was divorced, as I don’t think it’s right, but each to their own.
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Maybe he’s had long enough. I’d rather date someone who had been married and split up for 6 months than someone fresh out of a 1 year relationship as they tend to go more back and forth. Leaving someone after such a long time is usually more of a final decision.Urgh he went to my uni. I didn’t think such a respectable institution would let in such deadbeats!
@LaurieLaurie - he’s still married and in my experience, if a person doesn’t take time to be alone and discover themselves then they don’t make great partners. Bear in mind, we’ve been in lockdown for most of his post-break. Why did they break up? Where does he live? Are they planning to divorce? I wouldn’t date until I was divorced, as I don’t think it’s right, but each to their own.
When I met someone six months after my relationship ended I never gave my ex another thought. The new man knocked me off my feet and I couldn’t believe he was real
that was two years ago and he’s picking me up in a few hours for a nice date. I’d take a chance on him.How do you know he isn’t serious? He’s swerved you for months for a reason so he must be somewhat bothered about her or he would have cracked on with you too. Don’t be someone’s work banter.Yep honestly I feel for this poor lass hope she isn't serious because he's not.
Honestly men are ridiculous you'd think they grow out of this behaviour.
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So this guy is soooo my type, but if you’re going to match me and not speak, what’s the point!
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Now if this isn’t a bio to make you swoon I don’t know what is….
C'mon, what's the problem? He's "cheeky"! Bit of twit? Nah, love. "Cheeeeeky!!!"
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