Dating after lockdown #4 The bar for men is so low it's in hell

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I have a date with a guy from Hinge tonight. It's very obvious he's interested, he's given no red flags, communicates well and seems nice so why am I not super excited for it? I'm going to go, but I think I'm due on and feeling a bit meh in my mood after a great week off work 😂.

I'll give my head a wobble, get ready and report back later but send me good vibes please!
Sometimes I'm not super excited for dates and I meet them and end up having a good time.

Like, sometimes I chat to someone over WhatsApp and can take it or leave it, but we end up really gelling in person you know?

Good luck on your date tonight.
 
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Someone just responded to my photo on Hinge with “you look mucky 😂

I don’t even know how to react but he definitely didn’t get matched 🥴
 
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Why are these men assuming we’re all hanging around coffee shops, drinking wine and having long weekends hiking..!? They’ve all got the same boring interests 🤮
 
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How bloody insipid.
The bit before he said "I don't know what I should be saying so I will just ask a few random questions if that's alright"..

I have loads of things on my POF profile which I deliberately mentioned because they're good conversation starters. Some people just lack basic social skills 😅

Why are these men assuming we’re all hanging around coffee shops, drinking wine and having long weekends hiking..!? They’ve all got the same boring interests 🤮
I mean don't quick fire questions form the crux of your conversations with your nearest and dearest? 😅

Imagine spending your time with someone who kept asking whether you were a tea or coffee person and what your favourite snack was. You'd feel like you were interrogated and they'd learn nothing about what you were actually like as a person 🤷
 
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I have a date with a guy from Hinge tonight. It's very obvious he's interested, he's given no red flags, communicates well and seems nice so why am I not super excited for it? I'm going to go, but I think I'm due on and feeling a bit meh in my mood after a great week off work 😂.

I'll give my head a wobble, get ready and report back later but send me good vibes please!
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Ugggh I matched with a good looking guy, sent 2 messages to each other, his replies were one liners and on the third he replied with a single '😂' to my funny message... WHY SWIPE RIGHT ON ME IF YOU CAN'T BE ARSED TO TALK 🙈🙈🙈
 
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See - don’t they look great together! 😂😂😂
To be fair though, good on them 😅. Most men and women wouldn't look twice at someone taller / shorter than them..I've not read the full article but it's good they have looked past the height differences..
 
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I matched with a guy on my lunch break today and he’s unmatched me! He friggin swiped me first. 😤 must’ve had second thoughts 😔 🎻 he was vegetarian but not “sanctimonious” about it. Get on veggly, mate.
 
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Look who came up on my hinge today! Who recognises him haha

p.s not sure if I should have blurred his face out but if this goes against guidelines please do let me know and I will remove

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Poor Reza is definitely too short for some of you ladies! But it's nice to see a photo of him standing up and not posing in a chair 🤣🤣


Look who came up on my hinge today! Who recognises him haha

p.s not sure if I should have blurred his face out but if this goes against guidelines please do let me know and I will remove

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