HarryPotHead
VIP Member
She could do a lot for him but she doesn't. All those posts today aren't about M, they are about her, how she feels, what she has gone through, how she has coped. All about her and not about M. She pulls this shit every year on his birthday and at the end of the day she's hardly EVER there. I know a few mums with children who have additional needs and some of them haven't spent a single night away from their wains. Not Toni Tiny Tears. She's away most days for "a wee run", or weekends away so her hubby can shag men or on holidays so she can prance around and make reels or the best - laying in her pit all day while others tend to her son.I’m gonna go out on a limb here and say as a parent who had a child in nicu for two months that stuff traumises you and nicu PTSD is a real thing. Unless you’ve had a child in nicu for a considerable time you’ve no idea the effect that has on you so in some way I do have sympathy with them and I too am guilty of doing a birthday post on social media showing all the images of how far my child has come. They’ll have come through more in their first few weeks of life than most people will have in a life time. However it’s not just reserved for birthdays and I am eternally grateful every day of the year. I know madisons needs are quite complex but special needs and sensory resources have come such a long way in recent times and there are so many amazing websites out there selling some brilliant stuff. I think they could maybe have thought outside the box more instead of a home bargains haul. She talks about how he speaks with his eyes to them and he uses electronics what about looking into eye gaze for him to help communicate?? There’s so much out there to assist now.
I don't begrudge you sharing your wee ones journey cos you are experiencing that journey with them but that wee "me, me, me, me" speech and set of stories was all for Toni and the likes and sympathy she will get and has nothing to do with M