The goblin man is where I struggle because yes, she's patronising, stupid and has the dress sense of a 12 year old. BUT to allow herself to be put down by that absolute waste of sperm is truly quite sad. Her self esteem must be on the floor to let him have any say over her life, at all.
And I have no doubts that he puts her down, berates her and tries to keep her at his level. He seems exactly the type. All whilst dining out on money she makes, because let's be real - if he is even working, he doesn't work a lot, can't be the breadwinner.
It's the only thing that gets my sympathy going. She's young (older than me but still young!) and should not allow herself to be bogged down by such a cretinous caveman. I hate him more than I dislike her. I hate it when men are punching but think they're hot tit and the women would be lost without them.