The only message I'm going to address to the person who opened that TikTok account is what I wish someone had said to me when I was their age: it's all very well having someone you admire, but please try to look at them in the coolest and most distant way possible. It sounds very cliché, but look for people who can
really set an example for you. As a former Carrie fan, I too was delighted with her singing, acting, etc. but her situation and mine could never be equated. I don't have a famous brother, nor a mother who would push everything aside so I could reach for the stars. I have had to work my ass off and actually compete with people to get what I have now. What could a person who had been given everything on a silver plate give me or teach me? If I tried to apply her magnificent boundaries to my relationships in real life, I would look like an absolute asshole. If it crossed my mind to message her or ask her anything, I would always read all over again what I'd just wrote to make sure I wasn't crossing any lines so I wouldn't come across as rude. Always this feeling of walking on eggshells. The fact that she is famous does not make her a superior being, nor does it give her any right to lecture you about anything, girl;
anything. I'm pretty sure that in your personal environment, no matter who it is, there is someone who can transmit much more valuable things than she'll ever be able to. And if we criticise Carrie, among other reasons, it's because we don't want her to set a bad example for anyone, especially for the younger generation. And if you ever see the light, we'll be here for you to join and heal from your experience at admiring someone who didn't deserve your love and admiration in the first place