I’m going to say now that I, for the most part, quite like Carrie, and this is the first thing I’ve ever commented on here on this website. So I like to think this is coming from a well-meaning place.
I think there comes a point where celebrities have to take a step back and recognise they don’t need to respond to everything; it’s a losing battle. If Carrie stopped replying, it would stop turning into this monster every time she is off work for the day. When I’m at work, I have to be selective about what I allow myself to get defensive over. It’s the same everywhere. I can imagine it’s so annoying for her seeing these messages, she’s right, there’s not always (if ever) a necessity for it, they’re tagging the wrong person in these tweets. But people are allowed to talk about it, and I’ve gotta be honest, it feels so controlling to watch her try to silence people all the time just because it’s about something that concerns her. Yes, if people feel that strongly, they should speak to management - totally agree! But we’re nearly in 2022, and unfortunately everybody has a twitter account, you’re never going to get everybody to do what you want and stop complaining. It’s what humans do. I just think there has to be a level of decorum when dealing with complaints. If my boss got defensive and argumentative every single time somebody had a complaint, but then put a love heart at the end, it would make everybody uncomfortable. Everybody would eventually start walking on eggshells not knowing if what they say might open the flood gates again, no matter how carefully they word their concerns. Sometimes I think the kindest thing to do is to let people feel what they feel and move away from it. Even if what they’re saying is ridiculous. It sucks, but it’s just mad to me that we keep seeing this same cycle here. You can’t just keep repeating yourself, it’s not good for you Carrie, and it will never stop regardless. She’s absolutely allowed to defend herself if she wants to, she’s a human being, but I think maybe more consideration needs to be taken into the nuances of why people may be a little disgruntled and now the general public use social media perhaps, and I’m not sure engaging in the twitter rigmarole so often is good for her mental heath, let alone anybody else
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