Brogan Tate #113 days a year spent with Bonnie

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If anyone is stupid enough to travel without insurance then that is on them.



If you consider those awful cruise channels who do you consider good?
These days, very few I've come across. If you're just looking for info and the ambiance of the ship, Talking Cruise is pretty good. Harr Travel for ship tours. And while Ben and David do get on my nerves, Ben's footage is miles above the others.
Used to love Gary Bembridge, but I think even he's gotten jaded by doing so many cruises and now everything pales to Cunard. His info is still pretty good, but recently he leaned into the superchat/membership/patreon thing and it was right after going to YouTube's London headquarters.
Haven't looked at him in a while, but Sal Pitera had good info specific to Carnival and some toward cruising in general. 99.99% seem to be "look where I am now" "I'm on the newest ship" "I'm doing this now!" bragfests followed by "Please send me money".
There's a Cruise Creators thread if you want to check it out. Would be interested if you have some suggestions for ones I haven't mentioned.
 
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This is why I genuinely think he’s cheated at some point in the past. The constant territorial marking, clearly having control of his social media, the filmed/photographed public proposal, probably guilts him into being her wee pick up boy so she doesn’t have to do anything, and now he doesn’t even go to work, he’s constantly glued to her side.
I mean I don’t feel sorry for him, I think he’s equally as big a twit as she is, but I think he could probably do a lot better
Yeah I know what you mean. I think he could do better too. My theory is a bit controversial, but hear me out! We all know brogan is a massive controlling narcissist. Narcissists do *not* enter relationships with other narcissists, at least not long term ones. They usually attract submissive, empathic people who will just roll over and people please for the other person. I think that person is Benji. It’s a bit unusual in that usually with this dynamic it’s the male who’s the narcissistic one and the woman who’s the empathic one.

Imagine Benji was the original YouTuber, not Brogan- imagine he met Brogan and she ended up leaving her job (and hence probably not having an income), not seeing her friends, having her social media clearly controlled by her boyfriend, keeping her apart from her family at Christmas, absorbing his identity and interests, talking down and patronising to her on YouTube vlogs, everybody would be screaming that she’s in a controlling relationship. Yet because the genders are switched I think people miss this (likely) dynamic between them.

People say it was Benji that came across as controlling with the whole arranged proposal but truthfully I think he was terrified of getting it wrong and isn’t used to having any control in the relationship so it felt more comfortable for them to share the planning of it together.

I’m not saying Benji is a saint or totally innocent. But I do really think brogan is a very controlling and narcissistic person. The other side of this that totally fits is that brogan cannot maintain friends, has terrible relationships with her family, loves to brag, very egocentric, everything she says she likes about Benji relates to her (eg how he does X Y Z for …her!!), tantrums when she doesn’t get her own way, impulsive spending and eating, the list is endless

There’s a part of me that feels sorry for Benji. I wish they hadn’t met, I think he has much more depth and character to him that Brogs and could do so much better.
 
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I had problems with my heart a few years ago and I ended up in resus and admitted for a couple of days so I’m not surprised Benji was either. They take extra precautions when it’s as serious as your heart but once the initial fright is over you are discharged with follow up scans appointments. These two have just milked it - I would put money on her encouraging him to stay home because he does everything except wipe her arse.
I had a really nasty health scare last year, thankfully I’m ok now thanks to the quick response from the hospital but jeez it gave me a wake up call. I cannot believe for 1 second that this is what the Dr meant by a “normal” life
 
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We are currently preparing for Christmas Eve (40 people 😬) and I am trying to avoid doing the shopping list, she has no traditions like there’s a few in my family like a selection box from on grandad and him playing a lp none of us like but he does, visiting all the family graves, that kind of thing. She’s always away or on their own. It’s all so superficial and instant gratification with her. Nothing new I know but I am procrastinating.
 
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something happens in the blink of an eye, 3 years ago my mum sprained her wrist badly after a bit of rain in lanzarote and was covered by her private health insurance. Only health issue in 45 years of travel but she always ensured there was cover health wise when travelling
Same. My mum got bit by fire ants in Florida back in 1987. Spent two weeks in hospital down there and another month in the one here at home, My dad received a copy of the itemized bill the Orlando hospital sent the insurance company. We would have been destroyed financially if we didn’t have insurance. We’ve always got it when leaving Canada.

Yeah I know what you mean. I think he could do better too. My theory is a bit controversial, but hear me out! We all know brogan is a massive controlling narcissist. Narcissists do *not* enter relationships with other narcissists, at least not long term ones. They usually attract submissive, empathic people who will just roll over and people please for the other person. I think that person is Benji. It’s a bit unusual in that usually with this dynamic it’s the male who’s the narcissistic one and the woman who’s the empathic one.

Imagine Benji was the original YouTuber, not Brogan- imagine he met Brogan and she ended up leaving her job (and hence probably not having an income), not seeing her friends, having her social media clearly controlled by her boyfriend, keeping her apart from her family at Christmas, absorbing his identity and interests, talking down and patronising to her on YouTube vlogs, everybody would be screaming that she’s in a controlling relationship. Yet because the genders are switched I think people miss this (likely) dynamic between them.

People say it was Benji that came across as controlling with the whole arranged proposal but truthfully I think he was terrified of getting it wrong and isn’t used to having any control in the relationship so it felt more comfortable for them to share the planning of it together.

I’m not saying Benji is a saint or totally innocent. But I do really think brogan is a very controlling and narcissistic person. The other side of this that totally fits is that brogan cannot maintain friends, has terrible relationships with her family, loves to brag, very egocentric, everything she says she likes about Benji relates to her (eg how he does X Y Z for …her!!), tantrums when she doesn’t get her own way, impulsive spending and eating, the list is endless

There’s a part of me that feels sorry for Benji. I wish they hadn’t met, I think he has much more depth and character to him that Brogs and could do so much better.
I think you’re completely spot on. She is the spawn of Julie afterall.

I fully believe that if he got seriously ill and could no longer be her errand Sherpa boy and therefore be zero use to her, she’d either take Bonnie and go to Julie’s and stiff him so he’s stuck with the mortgage OR once they got an insurance payout to clear the mortgage, she’d kick him out and change the locks and make him go back to Kevin grovelling for his job and a place to stay.

That’s why I give zero fucks about how shite she looks and continues to ruin herself. Because she’s a narcissist and selfish bleep. She deserves a miserable life.
 
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Same. My mum got bit by fire ants in Florida back in 1987. Spent two weeks in hospital down there and another month in the one here at home, My dad received a copy of the itemized bill the Orlando hospital sent the insurance company. We would have been destroyed financially if we didn’t have insurance. We’ve always got it when leaving Canada.



I think you’re completely spot on. She is the spawn of Julie afterall.

I fully believe that if he got seriously ill and could no longer be her errand Sherpa boy and therefore be zero use to her, she’d either take Bonnie and go to Julie’s and stiff him so he’s stuck with the mortgage OR once they got an insurance payout to clear the mortgage, she’d kick him out and change the locks and make him go back to Kevin grovelling for his job and a place to stay.

That’s why I give zero fucks about how shite she looks and continues to ruin herself. Because she’s a narcissist and selfish bleep. She deserves a miserable life.
Agreed. If anything more serious ever happened to Benji she’d be straight out the door faster than you can say M’LOVES

I mean look at this year, clearly something has happened with him, maybe not as dramatic as the “heart tumour” they were saying about, but still something not great & then he’s clearly gone on to struggle mentally, but he’s ended up becoming HER slave 😱 still doing all the cooking etc.
 
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So Benji can do all the “big coasters”- assuming Velocicoaster, Rip Ride Rockit, Hulk etc- all pretty extreme. Yet he hasn’t worked for almost a year. So which is it- he is either “living a normal life” or he had a serious condition which means he can’t do his job.
He's a damn bleeping liar as is she, they should be disgusted in themselves. They're laughing and making a mockery of people with actual medical conditions. They're absolute scum.
 
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When Benj was told to live a normal life by the dr it was back in Feb and at that point his normal life consisted of an active job, regular gym visits and some socialising/the occasional holiday so I can absolutely see why the dr advised him to carry on that way….

I’m positive that if they could see what his new normal life is like then they’d be taking that advice back quicker than Brogan snatching back her Rice Krispie treat on Main Street after letting Benj have a taste 😂
 
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She has uploaded a photo from when they went to MK the other day. Unless they both haven’t had showers and worn the same exact clothes….

why does she not want to tell her followers what they are doing today?

Is she worried that her ‘fans’ will bombard them in the parks, even though the ‘fans’ are the ones who are paying for this trip???
 
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do we reckon she'll actually spend Christmas day at Mooney mansion or will she go on another holiday
 
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She has uploaded a photo from when they went to MK the other day. Unless they both haven’t had showers and worn the same exact clothes….

why does she not want to tell her followers what they are doing today?

Is she worried that her ‘fans’ will bombard them in the parks, even though the ‘fans’ are the ones who are paying for this trip???
For a second my dumbass was wondering what they were doing in Milton Keynes 🤦‍♀️
 
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do we reckon she'll actually spend Christmas day at Mooney mansion or will she go on another holiday
She said they’ve booked to go out for Christmas dinner because family on both sides are away for Christmas.
 
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