If I'd allowed myself to have sex with a guy old enough to be my dad, WHILE MARRIED and lost my actually decent guy of a handsome husband over it, I'd be eating my body weight in Disney treats, too.
She's her own worst enemy. But Spence is a manipulative old fucker- he called her manipulative because that's narcissist 101, claiming she does what he does. He's got her convinced he 'saved her' by getting her to eat more freely, when she used to have a healthy weight, and now she's on her way to a hiatal hernia from Hell. He's got her convinced they're the happiest couple but it's clear she never stopped loving Matty- she can't even bring herself to finalize the divorce. Spence rolls his eyes at her, insults her, treats her like an idiot, and she's not in a position to leave this tit because of her terrible choices, it just kills her that she made such stupid mistakes, that no one ever taught her right or gave her the tools to have a good life without depending on someone else. Spencer's predatory gaze landed on someone he could use on a few levels and he zeroed in. He admitted to making sure to be where she might be, before they got together, knowing she was married and had a lot of issues related to men and how she measures herself against how they respond to her.
I despise him, that racist, classist, walking inferiority complex is disgusting.
Disneyland is obv a source of great comfort for her, something that makes her feel safe, but as long as she doesn't face her own crap and her own past, she's never going to be okay, and if she loses access to Disneyland, it's going to be devastating for her, regardless of how many people will find it amusing.
Sadly, I still wish they'd get banned because together they're awful and ruin the experience for others.
If she'd leave him, and start her own channel, I bet she'd do okay. They're a great example of a couple who's really bad for each other while having no idea what an actually healthy relationship looks like, so they just stay together thinking all that misery is normal.
Sorryboutit
