Her comments section is full of men who clearly operate on the basis that you only have to respect and be nice to women that they find attractive. It's worrying how many men are still of that mindset in 2021.
And it's of course as we know, double fuelled by the massive hatred of fat. You could be a total cunt as a man/ smoke/ sexually abuse kids/ gaslight women/ physically and emotionally abuse your partner/ but of course being fat is waaaaaay worse.
Back to Becki, she started off well and a bit stricter, but now is clearly struggling with the food/carb/sugar addiction, and no judgement - it's so so hard! She would probably benefit from some professional advice and discussion of nutrition, what sugar/carbs do to your body, it sometimes helps things click, or even just self education.
When you're in that place though you just don't want it do you? you don't want to listen. Like any addiction. It's so difficult when you love food and it is a comfort. My heart does sink for her every time I see a takeaway because it's not just one a week, I so remember being stuck in that cycle of many treats and takeaways a week thinking 'this is okay!'. She seems so sweet and a genuinely nice person and at least she is trying, trying is better than nothing any day.