Multiple reports of neglect from several people will have raised suspicion majorly amongst services. Sometimes you get the odd family feud ect, ect. I knew it would be several reports. I also still suspect family/friends/attendee’s at TNB’s party. Why the duck would tommy’s mum be over helping so much. Its done under the guise of poor ash struggling with pregnancy. Its because she wants to be close to alfie without betraying her son and ashley. So she knows alfie is well looked after if she is around.
She thinks by doing this she has thrown a cat amongst the pigeons so to speak and fucked off. I bet she says she needs a weekend of rest and recooperation or “guess where we are” bullshit.
I believe she is playing with fire. Her life with two young children is going to hit her like a brick in the face even with all the help she will inevitably have. If anything like this happens again i can bet my bottom dollar social work wont be as accommodating. Because it isnt a one of flurry of incident/reports. It starts to become a timeline and that raises even more eyebrows.
A list that springs to mind from what I’ve seen online is alarming:
1) sustained a substantial bruise to the head after what wa described an accident. However, its because you refuse to follow any kind of SUDI guidelines
2) left your child covered in d and v for god knows how long, because you had a house party and then laughed about it
3) provide daily videos of your son online even when he cannot consent to his information being online for the public to see. Its my understanding childminder/home ect are easy to establish. Down to how many wet and dirty nappies he had.
4) Refusing to buy him well fitting clothes, innapropropriately dressed for the weather. But happily buy yourself a tonne of tit. For me this a major RED flag even though it wouldnt be glaringly obvious to services.
5) pen him into a single room in the house all of the time - i think this speaks to inclusion into the family unit .. especially when paired a long side the Christmas present fiasco. When they sit and open Christmas presents and he does what exactly?
6) his diet is bleeping appauling but that could be the case for a number of children anyway . So isn’t really a point. He has access to food which is a positive i guess.
7) she is openly negative about her experiences with alfie to a bunch of strangers. Now your telling us thats “just mum reality” blah blah blah. But its a continuous dialogue. That is not normal.
8)not using a car seat safely despite having access to information on how to do so correctly. Not following sudi guidelines consistently.
That’s probably just the tip of the iceberg but that would be my key points if i were starting a report.
She is a nasty little narcissist.
ETA - it makes me incredibly sad that if this were a young, single mum or couple living in social housing, utilising the benefit system to top up wages ect .. i cam guarantee they would not be viewed by services as favourably. It skews the view of social work/health visitors/education staff ect naturally. We equate middle class standing to looking after children well and they start off on a better footing in services eyes.