Regardless of whatever went down, who’s at fault etc. I can understand not wanting the dirty laundry to be aired. Aoife has a track record of putting inappropriate, private things out there for public consumption. She’s no filter. And not in a refreshing, honest, articulate way. I’d be so unhappy and take action if my ex did the same, particularly if I didn’t have a platform to get my side of the story out.
The two of them are so toxic. If the kids were genuinely the most important thing to them, they wouldn’t be used as pawns in their fight. They’re both in their mid 30s and should have the maturity and cop on to put the kids first and keep their disagreements private and out of sight and hearing of their kids. They’re both involved in the kids lives and they should know how important they are to the kids. Aoife grew up in a divorced household and likely knows how traumatic things can be if there’s constant tension. If Juan is withholding contact, then it proves again that the 2 of them are completely selfish arseholes who aren’t fit to be parents. I don’t think either of them are innocent, I think they’re narcissistic pricks who need professional intervention.