Before we go all X files on Dirty Dan, it is worth pointing out that I do not think we have seen any evidence of wrongdoing from him. Dead eyes, purchased insta followers, way too many emoji's, all guilty.
If we believe Javstar, then Dirty Dan and Alice broke up over a month ago. Why, we don't know. If we give him a couple of days to get his profile up and running, and a few days to have some email back and forth before getting out on a date, then they probably split late October.
That did not last long.
Does anyone have a timeline of when they met, when she moved etc?
I do feel sorry for her. She is obviously very lonely and was on the rebound from a longish relationship, but even taking that into account she made some crazy decisions.
Alice, if you are reading. tit happens. You made some bad decisions, but what happens next is what is important. I would ditch the life coach. Not sure that is working. Get some real friends outside of social media. The good ones are the ones who challenge you and call you out on your conduct.
None of us are perfect and making decisions based on feedback from strangers, who have zero stake in your life is a bad idea.
I would trust the feedback of someone who might have you in their spare room for 3 months over 500 insta cheerleaders.
It will soon be Christmas, at least you can now just enjoy your turkey without having Dirty Dan looking unfulfilled eating just carrots.