Good lord what the hell!? You absolutely should not feel bad, you are not a child and she should never be speaking to anyone like that. You clearly tried to write please so it's not like you were being rude. I'd like to hear what her language qualifications are and how many languages she's fluent in, given her english isn't even particularly good.I have wondered if I should for people like me...I am BIPOC and speak a few languages so I’m always worried about shades of meaning. Many in my community are, so we stay quiet...
But if she’s being given this item to promote...she’s a liaison...I know that I was polite, but imperfect.
But then I remember that I’m projecting some of my own insecurities about English, like maybe misspelling please or not putting it in the right spot is quite offensive when asking for something casually (I really do try my best with English)...
I did not know she was a nanny. I am surprised. Maybe that is why she corrected me.
UGH this has just made my blood boil. If I were you I'd be lecturing her right back every time she made an english mistake but you sound like a nice person and I feel like you should just unfollow her.