I bit the inside of my lip, and now everytime I eat I keep catching it and it’s so painful
Ahhh that’s rotten - I’m a Nan now but I can still remember how low I felt 32 years ago when someone said that to me too. People are thoughtless.Someone asking if I'm expecting.... I had a baby a year ago and I hate how I look and feel but losing weight is difficult... It's made me feel proper rubbish, I'm just fat!!
I'll let people off as most of tik tok users probably just discovered the song for the first timeHearing 'murder on the dancefloor' on every bloody insta/tiktok post
It's not that easy to arrange deliveries for when someone's home. Usually you need to pay a fair bit extra for that and with how tit most couriers are it's not easy getting packages. Arranging to be delivered to a parcel shop makes sense though.Is it unreasonable of me to feel annoyed about this .
I work from home mainly but have lots of meetings etc. I live in a houseshare with others and they always order parcels daily even though they do not work from home.
They will send me text messages asking if something has arrived and I'm starting to feel a bit like a concierge service. I don't mind receiving the odd parcel but near enough every single day the door goes multiple times. Since Monday I've received 2x Royal Mail deliveries, 2 x Evri, 1x Yodel and 1 Amazon. They don't acknowledge or say thank you.
I've said a few times they should arrange delivery so that they're in when they receive items but it falls on deaf ears. When I worked in the office I'd order things to a shop and collect from there or arrange delivery for the weekend when I knew I'd be in instead of expecting people to receive them.
Yeah i understand that choosing a certain day often costs a lot more but I think they could arrange for it to be delivered to a parcel shop or their place of work.It's not that easy to arrange deliveries for when someone's home. Usually you need to pay a fair bit extra for that and with how tit most couriers are it's not easy getting packages. Arranging to be delivered to a parcel shop makes sense though.
I think it's fair to take the package in but they shouldn't message you asking if it arrived, I mean they should get updates from the couriers on that anyway? And should definitely say thank you or give you a little treat for the favour.
Id just ask them to get delivery to a parcel shop and if not then the packages can be left in a safe place. If you wanna be nice you could say you'll grab the packages once a day from that place lol. Just say you're too busy at work. It is annoying if it's constant and not even a thanks from them.Yeah i understand that choosing a certain day often costs a lot more but I think they could arrange for it to be delivered to a parcel shop or their place of work.
I wouldn't mind if it was once in a while but it's multiple times a day almost every day which is just a lot to me. Id never just assume people would take in my deliveries.
If I've gone out at lunch and it has been delivered to a secure location I get messages asking to bring it in, or messages asking if someone is going to be in as they have four packages being delivered at x time.
Yes or their place of work. I think they would do this if they didn't think anyone was home.Id just ask them to get delivery to a parcel shop and if not then the packages can be left in a safe place. If you wanna be nice you could say you'll grab the packages once a day from that place lol. Just say you're too busy at work. It is annoying if it's constant and not even a thanks from them.
Just keep missing them "sorry was in a call"Yes or their place of work. I think they would do this if they didn't think anyone was home.
It's like sometimes I'm in a meeting and hear constant knocking, pause and see what it is and there are like seven big boxes. By the time I've moved them inside I've forgotten what the meeting was about. Then no "hey, thanks for getting my parcels, I appreciate it." I guess it feels like it is expected which is why it annoys me a bit I guess.
Sometimes I stick on a podcast if I am trying to concentrate so there are probably instances where I have.Just keep missing them "sorry was in a call"
“Best make sure you're home then” look at her and smileSometimes I stick on a podcast if I am trying to concentrate so there are probably instances where I have.
I think she kind of likes the wind up as well because she'd say things like "I've got loads of deliveries coming" and look at me and smile.
I love it. The sort of thought you have in a shower when you're like "why did I not think to say that".“Best make sure you're home then” look at her and smile
No, you're not unreasonable. I would start missing some of the deliveries if I were you. Block their numbers during the day, if necessary so you can't receive their messages. They are really taking advantage of you here.Is it unreasonable of me to feel annoyed about this .
I work from home mainly but have lots of meetings etc. I live in a houseshare with others and they always order parcels daily even though they do not work from home.
They will send me text messages asking if something has arrived and I'm starting to feel a bit like a concierge service. I don't mind receiving the odd parcel but near enough every single day the door goes multiple times. Since Monday I've received 2x Royal Mail deliveries, 2 x Evri, 1x Yodel and 1 Amazon. They don't acknowledge or say thank you.
I've said a few times they should arrange delivery so that they're in when they receive items but it falls on deaf ears. When I worked in the office I'd order things to a shop and collect from there or arrange delivery for the weekend when I knew I'd be in instead of expecting people to receive them.