I'm sorry but if I was 35 and my partner said he wasn't ready for kids then I would have to move on. I know there's a big age gap between them but let's face it, is anyone ever ready for kids? I thought I was until my child got here and I was like what do I do? I feel knackered constantly and I'm not 30 yet. I can't even begin to imagine the level of exhaustion at 37/38/39 all because my partner wasn't ready. I wish I had my child younger so I'd have all this time at the other end.