She should go to therapy.
Unjaded Jade #14 she's not like other gorls
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she has too much time on her hands that's why she thinks of all this crap tbh
Her south africa video has kinda left me speechless... how is she comfortable publishing that and nothing publically over 3 years about her 'growth partner' boyfriend? That's wild to me.
I would imagine he was the one who didn't want to be shown. She overshares absolutely every aspect of her life
Just got round to watching her South Africa video and what I don’t understand is how is she so comfortable on camera crying that he was her soulmate and everything else, when she hadn’t mentioned him in three years before this point?
I completely respect her right to keep that part of her life private but it strikes me as odd that you’d hide it for so long and now divulge all the details of your three year relationship and your emotions post-breakup when he’s likely watching? It just seems an odd approach.
I completely respect her right to keep that part of her life private but it strikes me as odd that you’d hide it for so long and now divulge all the details of your three year relationship and your emotions post-breakup when he’s likely watching? It just seems an odd approach.
I suspect it's because it was nowhere as serious as she's trying to make out. I think that them 'travelling and living together' is probably her taking staying over at his for one night as 'living' together.
Sometimes I do little silly impulsive things and let my intrusive thoughts win, whereas with Jade I feel like everything would be an introspective deep learning moment
Watched her South Africa vlog and remembered why her content is not for me and makes me side-eye those who find it relatable.
1. Crying that much in front of a camera (and a massive audience) is performative, no matter which way you slice it, it is. Humans are always thinking about how they look, sound, etc - we are designed to be self-conscious. Putting a camera in front of yourself when you're that emotional is not helping you be raw and authentic, it's feeding into the need to perform. I am sorry for the heartbreak she's experiencing but it is a new level of narcissism to put minutes of footage that is just you crying to a sad song. Seriously reminds me of a Delaney Rowe tiktok (give it a search, she portrays manic pixie dream girl types and every tiktok could be Jade).
2. She has too many feelings. Sorry if that's rude. Something is definitely not right but I doubt it was the relationship, the country she was in or the lack of crystals/manifestations in her life. She is emotionally all over the place, performing for youtube all the time is clearly confusing her emotions even more and she is self-aware something is not right but is always looking for an external fix.
3. Her video titles for the last 3 yrs have consistently been on theme with "self love", "taking myself out on a date" etc - very much giving single girl energy or someone whose trying hard to look like the cool girl who's OK with casual situationship when she really wants something more. My guess is this other person was gradually fading her out and she has used this SA trip to reclaim the narrative that it was her decision to end things. I don't buy for a second that she kept this relationship on the down-low because she's private. Someone who proclaims living authentically would not be hiding a relationship on their platform - either the relationship was never that deep, or it was only ever that deep for her. Either way it's definitely a healthy decision to leave it behind.
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1. Crying that much in front of a camera (and a massive audience) is performative, no matter which way you slice it, it is. Humans are always thinking about how they look, sound, etc - we are designed to be self-conscious. Putting a camera in front of yourself when you're that emotional is not helping you be raw and authentic, it's feeding into the need to perform. I am sorry for the heartbreak she's experiencing but it is a new level of narcissism to put minutes of footage that is just you crying to a sad song. Seriously reminds me of a Delaney Rowe tiktok (give it a search, she portrays manic pixie dream girl types and every tiktok could be Jade).
2. She has too many feelings. Sorry if that's rude. Something is definitely not right but I doubt it was the relationship, the country she was in or the lack of crystals/manifestations in her life. She is emotionally all over the place, performing for youtube all the time is clearly confusing her emotions even more and she is self-aware something is not right but is always looking for an external fix.
3. Her video titles for the last 3 yrs have consistently been on theme with "self love", "taking myself out on a date" etc - very much giving single girl energy or someone whose trying hard to look like the cool girl who's OK with casual situationship when she really wants something more. My guess is this other person was gradually fading her out and she has used this SA trip to reclaim the narrative that it was her decision to end things. I don't buy for a second that she kept this relationship on the down-low because she's private. Someone who proclaims living authentically would not be hiding a relationship on their platform - either the relationship was never that deep, or it was only ever that deep for her. Either way it's definitely a healthy decision to leave it behind.
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She needs to learn to internalise her thoughts. We all have weird intrusive thoughts from time to time it seems like she acts on them and publicises them constantly which makes her look like a bleeping crazy person. Like yeah I'd be interested in having a threesome one day but no one needs to know that stop put it on your bleeping instagram story.
She needs to understand that the front camera is not a mirror in the privacy of her room... if I were her, I'd be so embarrassed the next day. At this rate there's nothing stopping her from sharing toilet selfies ffs.
What’s the deal with her and queerness right now?
Is this the next personality trait she’s going to move onto after crystals?
I honestly feel like she probably just needs some structure and reality to her life. I’m sure it’s great to have an income from social media and not have to work 9 to 5 but… it’s surely a bit lonely too? Like I wonder if her move to London would have been a bit smoother if she had a job to go to everyday and the stability of seeing more or less the same people
Would probably give her some understanding of boundaries too
Is this the next personality trait she’s going to move onto after crystals?
I honestly feel like she probably just needs some structure and reality to her life. I’m sure it’s great to have an income from social media and not have to work 9 to 5 but… it’s surely a bit lonely too? Like I wonder if her move to London would have been a bit smoother if she had a job to go to everyday and the stability of seeing more or less the same people
Would probably give her some understanding of boundaries too
Jade is just so privileged so she needs to feel marginalised to feel better
Totally agree but she would never last in a standard job, imagine how insufferable shed be, talking to the manager as if she knows better than them
Ugh I’m annoyed by her Instagram stories. She’s having a rant about how the queer running club she joined was “full of white men” and she was the only female.
Jade, you’ve come in to a safe, queer, space and jumped straight to assumptions about people. Queer spaces are for people of all genders. Simply because you went in and it didn’t meet your expectations of what it would look like. There’s no need to tit all over it.
There are many femme specific queer running clubs in London. But why not be more positive rather than making this a “pick me” moment? Share that you’ve joined a club, but it wasn’t what you were looking for, ask for recommendation or see if anyone wants to come and join you. Rather than turning this into some “I’m such a strong female for sticking with this” narrative.
Jade, you’ve come in to a safe, queer, space and jumped straight to assumptions about people. Queer spaces are for people of all genders. Simply because you went in and it didn’t meet your expectations of what it would look like. There’s no need to tit all over it.
There are many femme specific queer running clubs in London. But why not be more positive rather than making this a “pick me” moment? Share that you’ve joined a club, but it wasn’t what you were looking for, ask for recommendation or see if anyone wants to come and join you. Rather than turning this into some “I’m such a strong female for sticking with this” narrative.
oh no will she be branded a terf for pointing out there were no women in her running group....?Ugh I’m annoyed by her Instagram stories. She’s having a rant about how the queer running club she joined was “full of white men” and she was the only female.
Jade, you’ve come in to a safe, queer, space and jumped straight to assumptions about people. Queer spaces are for people of all genders. Simply because you went in and it didn’t meet your expectations of what it would look like. There’s no need to tit all over it.
There are many femme specific queer running clubs in London. But why not be more positive rather than making this a “pick me” moment? Share that you’ve joined a club, but it wasn’t what you were looking for, ask for recommendation or see if anyone wants to come and join you. Rather than turning this into some “I’m such a strong female for sticking with this” narrative.
uh oh
I think also part of it is she wants to be friends with people she considers ‘minorities’ - for example, she loves pointing out where her friends are from geographically and didn’t she call one of her friends ‘exotic’ once?Ugh I’m annoyed by her Instagram stories. She’s having a rant about how the queer running club she joined was “full of white men” and she was the only female.
Jade, you’ve come in to a safe, queer, space and jumped straight to assumptions about people. Queer spaces are for people of all genders. Simply because you went in and it didn’t meet your expectations of what it would look like. There’s no need to tit all over it.
There are many femme specific queer running clubs in London. But why not be more positive rather than making this a “pick me” moment? Share that you’ve joined a club, but it wasn’t what you were looking for, ask for recommendation or see if anyone wants to come and join you. Rather than turning this into some “I’m such a strong female for sticking with this” narrative.
Anyway, I feel like part of the reason she joined is so she could claim to have trans and non-binary friends (another minority for her) and she’s annoyed that no one there fits the bill.