Nice car could also mean a car thats not breaking down all the time. Having a good car is essential when you have to drive to therapies etc. First thing i brought with the respite grand was a car that didnt conk out in traffic.The respite is not for you to ensure you have a nice car!!!! as a user said above they use theirs for a family holiday........ lovely idea where they get a break and get to delight in their child and create special memories!