Oh shut up you idiot. I'll come at you or anyone who says that video is acceptable parenting. I have children and we'll into my parenting journey. Weirdly I don't feel the need to exploit my child and film them to try and imply brilliant at it.
Eat me up would you? Ha, OK!!
If I got a whiff of your parenting style with autistic children and it was anything like that video that you think it was acceptable, if definitely be raising concerns.
You don't need to humiliate your child to get your own way. Maybe try treating them like a human and get support for yourself if you think aggression helps autism.