So, this is not a sympathy seeking question. Itās more of a someone in my life in going through something and itās got me wondering question.
Do you think Tracey mentally abused Corey?
I see the way she treats J and know she has repeatedly said that the end of her marriage broke her. Is she projecting? Is this why he is struggling to ābounce back?ā Is he so low in depression that he canāt find a way out?
Like I said, not a sympathy seeking question, but an I wonderā¦
Definitely, itās a big trait of a Narcissist. Also her treatment of Jayden is a huge tell that Jayden is not her first victim.
Did she drive Corey to depression? No, heās definitely dealt with that for a while, but she definitely probably wore him down to the point where dating may not even feel worth it. I do think Tracyās unhinged behaviors also play a small role, because just look at how she acted when he got with Brielle, and I honestly donāt even think Brielle got to physically meet the kidsā¦ā¦ but Tracy is allowed to have her boyfriends play dad? Make it make sense.
I donāt think Corey goes to therapy either and I donāt think heās ever really dealt with the grief of loosing his dad, but these are not excuses as to why he couldnāt at least show up to court for the sake of the kids.
Depression and his addiction to pain killers probably also fueled his little run in with the law, where he did end up with a misdemeanor after pleading guilty to avoid Felony charges.
Corey is in a position where the only person that can help him, is himself. He has to want to do better and fight for the kids, he has to want to do better and get an actual job that is going to suck for a while as they will garnish the
tit out of his pay because of child supportā¦ both current payment and back payā¦. But again, he has to want to do better for himself. If he can go back to investing in baseball, he can go back into the adult world and get a job, get an attorney that can help him with the way he fucked up by not showing up and getting him visitations with his kids again. At the end of the day, he has to want to do all those thingsā¦.. always had high hopes that Tara was helping him make moves in silence, but itās painfully obvious that Corey cares about Corey the way Tracy cares about Tracy.