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What really bothers me are the Tiffany subs who are now publicly attacking her doctors. They believe everything Tiffany has said about her various meetings with her medical caregivers, which all indirectly suggest they are not answering her questions or taking her seriously. I highly doubt all her doctors have been so negligent. It's Tiffany herself who either misinterprets what they say, blocks out the bad parts and simply doesn't ask the tough questions because she can't face the truth about the dire nature of her illness.


I honestly do not think she has ever been cancer free. Her surgeon never told her that. In fact, she said he warned her that her cancer may become inoperable after the 6 week waiting period.
I remember that Tiffany said that the Doctor said that, and Matt told her, in the car, that he didn't think the cancer was going to grow in that time-frame, so she listened to Matt. That's what baffles me the most, how Matt could say those words?! I've been with Patients where 9.999/10 times the Spouse is telling us to do whatever needs to be done. Even if the Patient is unsure, the Spouse almost always wants us to do anything and everything to save the patient. SMH.
 
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She has been twisting and spinning her stories, video after video to gain more subs and views. She makes abt 24k per month on her channel, excluding merchandise. She has 305 videos so far and counting. Now, instead of urgently trying to find the cure for her cancer, she is still thinking of doing vlogmas. If not for the love for $$$$, who would have the frame of mind, time and energy to do so many videos, when they supposedly have T4B cancer and could potentially die from it??
She's going to have a very impressive
Agree. It's possible to advocate for yourself at the same time as using positive manifestations, in the same way as it's possible to be both a sweet-natured girl and a good businesswoman. Tiffany is already three of those things but she really needs to focus on the first one now.
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Yes, I agree with both of you. When I first heard about her Merchandise, I thought she would say that she was going to donate a portion of the profit to Cancer research. But I guess she takes it all for herself. And to constantly say that she is not making money, is insulting at best, disrespectful at most. Yet, her Subs keeping going on about a "Go-Fund-Me" page, and she doesn't have the decency to say, "it's okay, guys, I can handle the cost". What a piece of work, she is!!


I agree. The Subs keep talking about if she needs a Colostomy Bag and how it would be uncomfortable. Or that she wants kids with Matt and that the operation wouldn't allow her to carry a baby. WHAT PLANET ARE THESE PEOPLE ON???? You know what ruins a life? Death!! Get the op and deal with the healing first then worry about the rest. This is another reason why I can't watch her videos. I've had patients, on their death beds, tell me that they wish they had have had the operation. Once that window closes, it's very difficult to re-open it.
Yes, I agree with both of you. When I first heard about her Merchandise, I thought she would say that she was going to donate a portion of the profit to Cancer research. But I guess she takes it all for herself. And to constantly say that she is not making money, is insulting at best, disrespectful at most. Yet, her Subs keeping going on about a "Go-Fund-Me" page, and she doesn't have the decency to say, "it's okay, guys, I can handle the cost". What a piece of work, she is!!


I agree. The Subs keep talking about if she needs a Colostomy Bag and how it would be uncomfortable. Or that she wants kids with Matt and that the operation wouldn't allow her to carry a baby. WHAT PLANET ARE THESE PEOPLE ON???? You know what ruins a life? Death!! Get the op and deal with the healing first then worry about the rest. This is another reason why I can't watch her videos. I've had patients, on their death beds, tell me that they wish they had have had the operation. Once that window closes, it's very difficult to re-open it.
I am quite resentful that she pleads poverty but flaunts her ugg slippers, coffee machines and smeg kettles amonst other things. I can't afford those (not that I would waste that amount of money anyway) and we are helping her buy them.
You can't take it with you Tiffany!!!!
 
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I saw a couple of her videos. She is very genuine. It's very sad for me to watch as now she has brain metastases. I saw some 'Krocks In The Kitchen' videos, the lady has ovarian cancer. The channel seems to be about vegan cooking but since she got diagnosed, she immediately thought of others and started spreading awareness about this very sneaky type of cancer. When she is talking about the cancer, she clearly titles it that way and the whole video is about the cancer. Very clear and informative. And when they are doing things unrelated to the cancer, they title the videos as such. Unlike someone we know.
Jenny had another Brain Scan, and the Chemo has stopped the growth. So it looks like the Brain cancer is stable and the doctors are pleased.
I watch Krocks in the Kitchen too, and they are both very transparent too. Great recipes, and yes, they label their videos accordingly.
 
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Jenny had another Brain Scan, and the Chemo has stopped the growth. So it looks like the Brain cancer is stable and the doctors are pleased.
I watch Krocks in the Kitchen too, and they are both very transparent too. Great recipes, and yes, they label their videos accordingly.
There is also a lady called Delia Chatwin, I think stage 3 breast cancer. Again, when the video is about cancer, it's about cancer. Straight to the point, well-researched, and with the aim to educate. No tricks, no half-truths, no misinformation. No filler content just to make the videos longer.
And Vanessa LPZ for colorectal cancer (stage 3 like Tiffany), now in remission. She deserves way more views than Tiffany but unfortunately clickbaits and drama and suspense is what sells.
 
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She said she had been awake all night worrying and wanted to speak to the surgeon as she is so co fused, so much so that she repeated that more than three times. Her priority despite this was to sit down and make a tea with Tiffany “podcast” and prat on amour mindless dribble.
 
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I totally agree. Her manipulation of the caring viewers is sickening. Now they are disgusted and attacking the doctors, esp the surgeon for not calling her back. Really?? They already had a meeting and he already gave her the 3 options. It’s just her and Matt who didn’t prep themselves and ask the right questions. Now the surgeon and doctors’ reputation are at stake. Tiffany needs to own up to her stupidity of not researching abt whatever grade of cancer she’s having and asking the right questions. I used to sympathise with her situation. However, now I think that she’s cunning and acting stupid (to gain more pity and views) when she already knows everything abt her case. If she’s cancer free, she should throw the boomerang like she said. If she still has cancer, then she needs to do something or die prematurely. Surely her family and relatives should be more informed and could advise her on the right direction she should go.
I wouldn't worry about the Doctors or Nurses reputations, we are used to disgruntled Patients talking smack! lol For the most part, most other Patients understand that it's probably a character flaw and not the fault of the Medical Staff. We get Patients, like Tiffany, who act confused, and don't do as we ask, and to those people, we take it all with a grain of salt.
And let's remember, that ALL Doctors can drop a patient. So if this Doctor and his Staff felt a certain way about everything, they could step down. Is it morally just? Maybe not, but in the end, everything is a Business, and if we feel that we are at risk of losing other Patients over one unhappy Patient, we may go that route, but it almost never happens that way.
I think that Tiffany is much more intelligent than she makes out to be; and I think that her biggest flaw is that she's a narcissist; she LOVES the attention, and wants to make sure that she is in the spotlight as much as she can be.
As for her Illness, I don't think any of us will know for sure what is really going on. She may become a "miracle" like Jodi from 'Too Cute for Cancer' or she may lose the Battle, but however it plays out, one thing is for certain, she has built herself a cult; and I refuse to drink the Kool-Aid!
 
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I was never sure that BB was avoiding facing reality so much as doing everything she could to prolong life, because she clearly absolutely LOVED living. The waters seem far muddier, in Tiffany's case. Hard to tell what she's masking and what she isn't.
Yes, you’re absolutely right, BB was definitely doing everything to live not necessarily just avoid facing dying. Tiffany … I’m guessing time will tell what’s really going on. Hopefully. Maybe.
 
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She said she had been awake all night worrying and wanted to speak to the surgeon as she is so co fused, so much so that she repeated that more than three times. Her priority despite this was to sit down and make a tea with Tiffany “podcast” and prat on amour mindless dribble.
I noticed that too, that she repeats herself a lot. End stage Cancer patients do that a lot; because there's confusion. I don't know that Tiffany is end-stage, but it could be a side-effect from the Chemo (sometimes referred to as Chemo Brain).
 
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I noticed that too, that she repeats herself a lot. End stage Cancer patients do that a lot; because there's confusion. I don't know that Tiffany is end-stage, but it could be a side-effect from the Chemo (sometimes referred to as Chemo Brain).
She finished Chemo 2 months ago at least
 
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I agree. The Subs keep talking about if she needs a Colostomy Bag and how it would be uncomfortable. Or that she wants kids with Matt and that the operation wouldn't allow her to carry a baby. WHAT PLANET ARE THESE PEOPLE ON???? You know what ruins a life? Death!! Get the op and deal with the healing first then worry about the rest. This is another reason why I can't watch her videos. I've had patients, on their death beds, tell me that they wish they had have had the operation. Once that window closes, it's very difficult to re-open it.
The loving TiffanyThinks? Tattle family, need to put that on a t-shirt. 😂 ☺
 
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I noticed that too, that she repeats herself a lot. End stage Cancer patients do that a lot; because there's confusion. I don't know that Tiffany is end-stage, but it could be a side-effect from the Chemo (sometimes referred to as Chemo Brain).
I think often she does several takes of a sentence - like she's speaking a script, basically - so things are repeated in quick succession. Plus repeating things obviously makes the clips longer, so more advertising revenue.
 
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I noticed that too, that she repeats herself a lot. End stage Cancer patients do that a lot; because there's confusion. I don't know that Tiffany is end-stage, but it could be a side-effect from the Chemo (sometimes referred to as Chemo Brain).
That got me thinking too. The timing of her receiving a letter from the hospital only recently after the no-surgery decision re counselling, since her diagnosis was quite a while ago. I do know that a lot of cancer patients, along with their immediate family and/or loved ones, in hospice/pallative stage get offered that service.
 
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I remember that Tiffany said that the Doctor said that, and Matt told her, in the car, that he didn't think the cancer was going to grow in that time-frame, so she listened to Matt. That's what baffles me the most, how Matt could say those words?! I've been with Patients where 9.999/10 times the Spouse is telling us to do whatever needs to be done. Even if the Patient is unsure, the Spouse almost always wants us to do anything and everything to save the patient. SMH.
Exactly. Was it evidence based science, or a hunch... :unsure:
 
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She said she had been awake all night worrying and wanted to speak to the surgeon as she is so co fused, so much so that she repeated that more than three times. Her priority despite this was to sit down and make a tea with Tiffany “podcast” and prat on amour mindless dribble.
Yeah, I get that she wants to have things to do, to distract her from the terrible truth of her reality. But not if it appears to take her away from reality all the time to the extent that she cannot comprehend and/or make informed decisions. Already her channel is not helping anyone dealing with the type of cancer that she has. In fact, it may be the channel that will teach others what not to do.
 
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Does anyone remember seeing the video of an older woman who wrote and sang a song for Tiffany? Tiff posted the YT link in an IG story last week maybe but it disappeared. Tiff hasn’t mentioned it since.
It was so sad that she fell for Tiffany like so many others who get strung along week after week.

Does anyone remember seeing the video of an older woman who wrote and sang a song for Tiffany? Tiff posted the YT link in an IG story last week maybe but it disappeared. Tiff hasn’t mentioned it since.
It was so sad that she fell for Tiffany like so many others who get strung along week after week.
My bad: She didn't write the song for Tiffany, she dedicated one she previously wrote to her.
 
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Guess it's a nice thought - not sure the singing would have made anybody feel all that much better though.
 
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I took a look at her latest video, many, many things that she is saying makes no sense:
She said she didn't call her Surgeon because it was late when she got home from the Hospital. Okay, but why didn't she mention the Bleeding while AT the Hospital??? Does she think only the Surgeon can help? And, the staff would have reached out to her Surgeon to let him know; so she didn't have to go another night with questionable bleeding.
She keeps mentioning that the blood may be from the Chemo/radiation/meds, but none of that makes sense either, and if she just called the office, she would know!

Denial is based on knowledge, but stupidity is based on ignorance! As almost everyone has mentioned here, she's hoping it'll just go away.

Odd that she's mentioning about VlogMass, because didn't she say in another video not too long ago that she can't make plans because she's unwell?
She said she feels like December is the last month...... ya, because it is!!! lol

What I find odd with her too, is praying in front of the camera. I think Prayer is personal, and it always sat kind of wrong with me. That's probably just me.

Blah, Blah, Blah... about her favorite shows

Then she says: "I just want to say thank you to you who see's a comment that isn't very nice and you will write Block and Delete, tick, tick, tick. Honestly, thank you so much, like sometimes I feel bad blocking these people, but it's good to get rid of any negativity, towards this channel and us." By negativity, she means honesty, and from the very people who helped build her channel.

It makes her happy to go through the comments for support, and helping each other. How is she helping others??? There's no honesty on her channels besides the color of the T-Shirt she is wearing that day!

Sorry it's so long. I watched this one with a good friend who is a Surgical Nurse and she shook her head all the way through, and agrees, that something is not adding up. Doctors/Specialists aren't that incompetent. She also reiterated that all Doctors can be reached especially Oncologists when a Patient is going through treatment, and Royal Marsden has some of the Best in the world.
 
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76.4k subscribers, and this was the top comment in yesterday's warm water with Tiffany:

You must advocate for yourself. Do not worry about your surgeon’s time. You deserve the doctor’s time and answers to all of your questions. Stay strong.
 
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