This is why they tell you on an airplane to put your oxygen mask on yourself before you help the child/elderly person next to you. Tim needs to take care of himself or he is going to be absolutely useless in being the sole provider for his family. While I certainly don't wish any illness or harm on him, he's heading in that direction. He looks awful, like the soul has been sucked out of him. The stress of the new baby, while still caring for J$ is going to be too much for him. Private home educator or not.His appearance is poor diet and probably stress because he made promises of taking care of the family and that is quickly failing.