With the greatest respect, J hasn’t been left at all. J is dead.
Sorry, but I completely disagree with the idea that bereaved parents should be shackled to their child’s grave. I have lost significant family members and I have only visited their graves a handful of times. I miss my family members greatly but I don’t need to be beside their grave to feel that I am with them, and they are with me.
Kaytee is many things: narcissist, liar, possible sociopath, but don’t paint people as unnatural for not wanting to be close to graves. To some people graves are not significant.
And Jaxon hasn’t been left or abandoned. You can’t abandon someone who has died.
I didn't paint anyone as being unnatural for not visiting graves or say anyone should be shackled to their childs grave. I would never think grieving parents should be shackled to their childs resting spot. I agree with what you have said, graves arent significant for alot of people and we can all feel our loved ones daily without visiting. I was only talking about her, nobody else, I said i wondered what the reason was for her not visiting when she could have sooner.
He was her only child and has only recently passed away, she was going frequently before and using it for content, she has said she found comfort being at what she calls his garden, she had friends doing visits on her behalf when she was away and said she needed to come back to see him. There was no rush once she was back to go and visit him, which made me curious as to why it wasn't a priority for her. If she had said she doesnt feel a connection with visiting often, as she has him with her always, there is nothing to question with that, she is grieving and people handle things differently and have different beliefs. But she has asked strangers to visit his grave, theres a box of books to read to him and people can leave him notes for her to read. If his grave isn't somewhere she feels she needs to visit often, it looks odd she is making it look over the top and inviting people to visit.
She is crying over a top of the range Merc and its sunroof. The cemetery is 10 miles away and I get the impression she thinks if she can show people she cant get to him often because of the car, it will help her get another GofundMe set up, she needs more money off people, £46k was never going to be enough for her.