I’m so glad I’ve found this thread, you guys have confirmed what my gut instinct was telling me! I had to unfollow her back when she did the feeding plan (or lack of) and you could see she was starving poor J and I remember how uncomfortable it made me feel at the time. Oh and I wondered how medically a hot tub was to benefit J too, knowing she used go fund me money to buy it just didn’t sit right with me either. I felt guilty for thinking like that as most of my career has been within the SEND community and know how much SEND families fight for the best care for their children. I came across her profile again around the time of her birthday but her stories were all over and I couldn’t keep up - hospital one minute, out without child the next, I put it down to the typical influencer pre-records as no mother (or parent at all) would do that in real time. Next thing was J’s sad decline and her behaviour after his passing made me uncomfortable again so I unfollowed. I felt guilty for thinking that as she had just lost her child and was clearly grieving but something just isn’t sitting right with me and I’m so glad others see this too! Amazingly I’ve missed the secret fiancé etc so I’ll be going back over the threads and seeing what I’ve missed
