Like a previous poster has said I think she’s grieving first about her financial situation & then her son. There’s No One Size Fits All Approach in dealing with grief or mental health yes circumstances maybe similar but they’re different if that makes sense? Every materialistic thing she has was down to her son. Driving lessons plus a car (not the merc) funded by a charity, Blender funded by a charity His bed funded by a charity she wasn’t happy with that so paid for him to have it in white, Scales which she left in some top London hotel funded by a charity all the while she was getting every benefit she was entitled too plus more for herself & Jaxon like the child maintenance she got from J’s dad but never mentioned. she also conveniently forgot to declare her income to tax credits so was over paid & she told us so. Im not saying she wasn’t entitled to any of the money & all the money in the world can’t help heal the pain of losing your child, but still none of it was used in the way it should of been for Jaxon & his needs or his life experiences. The Mercedes she left in London overnight with out closing the window properly plus it didn’t fit his wheelchair in but fitted her wanna be gangster lifestyle, even the parking fines she got a few she never paid them she cried about it on her Instagram so other people paid them for her, I really wouldn’t mind but there’s Parents & Children who don’t get even half or if any help emotionally financially whatsoever yet there needs are some what greater. Also another thing whatever Kathleen wanted or needed she would make sure that she got it without the lengthy wait & process even if that meant complaining