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Don’t get me wrong I have photos too but these photos Are being used to open a merch shop it’s really wrong in my eyes they should not be on social media x
 
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Can you remember the night she implied Anthony Joshua may have been J’s dad 🙄

we all knew then she needed reporting.
 
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There’s having pics and keeping them in a memory box. & then there is getting your friends to record you so u can put it on social media to manipulate people into buying merch from your store. Its weird AF
 
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There's only one hospital on Male( the main Island) for the whole of the archipelago ...the Maldives are not designed for ill children and the flight(s) alone would take 11 hrs . However I have no doubt she will still 'honour his memory' and go to the Maldives- hypocrite ....although currently the Maldives are not open for U.K. travellers
but remember this is the mother that took her sick child to the remote African islands of Cape Verde, which also had no hospital....it's always been about her and not J
My daughter has heart, kidney and liver disease. Not severe, manageable and requires annual checkups. When we went to Cuba for a wedding, I researched every hospital near to where we were staying, how long it would take to get there, I researched the doctors and if they specialised for her needs. I just cant imagine taking a child who is even more complex than mine, somewhere where they have very little medical care, and miles away from the nearest hospital. I don't follow the nurse mum much, haven't really been on this thread, but since J has passed I can't get over the social media circus she is turning her sons death into. She doesn't have J anymore, so she is climbing her way up the influencer ladder by using his death. I'm sorry if it offends anyone, but its pretty obvious and damn right vile!
 
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She needs to delete or deactivate her IG account take a step back and stop all this. I really don’t like this women how can she think any of this is okay!

She needs to delete or deactivate her IG account take a step back and stop all this. I really don’t like this women how can she think any of this is okay!
 
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She doesn't have J anymore, so she is climbing her way up the influencer ladder by using his death. I'm sorry if it offends anyone, but its pretty obvious and damn right vile!
When I saw her post when it was his birthday and she was wearing that pink thing, the first thing I thought was this was her getting back into her 'infleuncer' mode. The casual but posed pose where she's looking to the side and taking a step - classic influencer pose. Go on to any influencers page under the age of 25 and theres photos like that, only their suits are matching in colour and dont look like they're made from jogger material.
 
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My daughter has heart, kidney and liver disease. Not severe, manageable and requires annual checkups. When we went to Cuba for a wedding, I researched every hospital near to where we were staying, how long it would take to get there, I researched the doctors and if they specialised for her needs. I just cant imagine taking a child who is even more complex than mine, somewhere where they have very little medical care, and miles away from the nearest hospital. I don't follow the nurse mum much, haven't really been on this thread, but since J has passed I can't get over the social media circus she is turning her sons death into. She doesn't have J anymore, so she is climbing her way up the influencer ladder by using his death. I'm sorry if it offends anyone, but its pretty obvious and damn right vile!
And Cuba has amazing health care provision....whereas these tiny islands she went to/ planned to go with J have v basic care and limited facilities
 
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Taking bets now 10/1 this Alisha announces her next retreat will be in the Maldives 😂😂
 
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"Making memories" but she couldn't even be fucked to do anything for Christmas. She makes me sick. Its all I can bring myself to say about her.
Exactly this!!! This really stuck in my throat last year when she said he didn’t understand Christmas so wasn’t going to bother. Almost all children react to the stimulation that lights, smell and touch can bring. Christmas is a fantastic time for that and she didn’t even put a tree up. Yet she’s decorated a grave for him more than she would do anything when he was alive. She’s giving herself more grand displays in his death than she did for him during his life.
 
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Exactly this!!! This really stuck in my throat last year when she said he didn’t understand Christmas so wasn’t going to bother. Almost all children react to the stimulation that lights, smell and touch can bring. Christmas is a fantastic time for that and she didn’t even put a tree up. Yet she’s decorated a grave for him more than she would do anything when he was alive. She’s giving herself more grand displays in his death than she did for him during his life.
She didn’t buy him anything and yet we all saw how smart and interactive he was! Could have got him a water tray it play dough or a swing 😒
 
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Exactly this!!! This really stuck in my throat last year when she said he didn’t understand Christmas so wasn’t going to bother. Almost all children react to the stimulation that lights, smell and touch can bring. Christmas is a fantastic time for that and she didn’t even put a tree up. Yet she’s decorated a grave for him more than she would do anything when he was alive. She’s giving herself more grand displays in his death than she did for him during his life.
Just wait until this Christmas comes around and we're treated to a snot fest about how terrible Christmas is without him.

She pushed the narrative that he may not live long for most of his life, let celebrating the few special occasions he may have had never seemed of great importance to her. She was more interested in building her own profile and profiting from the situation.
 
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If my child vomited BLOOD you best believe I'd shop, prepare and kill myself providing WHATEVER they needed so that they never had to endure that again.
 
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As a mother I couldn’t not celebrate . My son was born in November and Christmas he was six weeks old I still wrapped presents and decorated the house . I do think kaytee has no real emotions she’s a very selfish women and seems to only care about herself . Even when starving him she could not be arsed to blend food so she didn’t bother but as a mother anyway we all go through the weaning stage and it’s not that time consuming . Let’s not forget this women was jobless so had loads of time .
 
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Ok, I might sound awful but i've been in that situation. Myself and my husband have photos holding our baby in the chapel of rest but in our defence they are for us and will NEVER be put online for everyone to see.
Our son died when he was 3 days old. I only held him twice when was alive (once when he was covered in wires to try and help him and once when he died) He was 2 days old the first time I held him.

I wish I had never had to see or feel my child like that.

But there is one thing taking photos and another plastering them online.
Yes to this, my cousins baby tragically died at a few weeks old, in those 2 weeks he was was hooked up to every tube machine going so when he passed and was at rest they took some photos to preserve in their memories just how perfectly gorgeous he was and to show their older child. Ive seen the pictures they are indeed beautiful but they are in a memory box NOT on instagram !
 
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I didn’t mean to offend and I really hope I ain’t I lost my baby also and it’s absolutely normal to take pictures for memories . But she put them all over her social media account whilst showing her new shop selling merch of her dead son . I personally don’t think photos like that should be used in that way especially in the way she used them to pull heartstrings so people will buy merch . Even today she’s sharing feedback to get more people buying but she genuinely does not even see an issue with what she is doing .
 
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