TheNurseMum #8

[I’mThankyou_]

Remember when she was TOLD to go to A&E over his PEG site by nursery but didn't because it was inconvenient to her. Two days later she went and then bitched about the fact they were sent home

 

[avabella]

The video of him vomiting is quite frankly, absolutely disgusting (for a mother to post). That is genuinely upsetting.

I hope that poor baby has peace now.

 

[GobShyte64]

Notts city safeguarding is tit hot… if you have a shite postcode. When my son was a baby and we lived in a shite area, he crawled backwards off a change table and banged his head. Few days later I had safeguarding ring me to explain how it happened, and why was I using a change table when he was crawling. I would like to think someone was involved.

According to nottingham live, she lives in Arnold. Im not from Notts so I’ve not a clue where that is or if its a poop postcode or not.

 

[Riddlemethis]

I’m sure she even said in her birthday post that he was going back in the next day again for some infusion. So instead of staying at home with him and letting him rest in between hospital stays, she sent him to school so she could go to Alton towers for the day. She’s vile and she never deserved him. After everything she publicly admitted to then deleted it when it was mentioned on here how wrong it was, shows that she knew she had to hide the evidence of what she was doing to him or her lack of what she should have been doing for him. The whole saying on stories that she hadn’t given him his meds through the night because she needed to sleep was where she lost me as someone that could even believe her. The filling him up with feed in the day when he was meant to be getting it gradually over 24hours so she didn’t have to do his late feeds. It’s disgusting. He had basic care needs that she would dismiss all so she could say he needed carers. I hope she never has another child, no child deserves to have that as a mother.

 

[Smallpotato]

According to nottingham live, she lives in Arnold. Im not from Notts so I’ve not a clue where that is or if its a poop postcode or not.

It’s, erm, unique?

 

[mrstakeaway]

Notts city safeguarding is tit hot… if you have a shite postcode. When my son was a baby and we lived in a shite area, he crawled backwards off a change table and banged his head. Few days later I had safeguarding ring me to explain how it happened, and why was I using a change table when he was crawling. I would like to think someone was involved.

Ah but she is notts county not city smaller and underfunded

ANYWAY regardless of where she lives.
The boy was failed!
all the apointments he has somebody should have picked up something

 

[xxexposethemallxx]

May sound horrible but honestly I hope she doesn’t have any more kids ( in future )

She’s shown her neglect to J , we’ve seen it. She’s quite obviously taking advantage of him in death

She can’t look after animals ( those poor kittens )

I hope someone talks sense into her ( you would’ve thought family ) about the shop & also about the over the top grave site

 

[Grace's Secret]

I’ve been waiting for her thread to be reopened, so much about her leaves a bad taste in my mouth! Her son was fresh out of hospital and she swanned off to Thorpe park with her friends, who leaves their poorly child? I nearly lost my son in the middle of august due to DKA from undiagnosed type 1 diabetes, I cancelled important hospital appointments so I could be with him, and she couldn’t even give up a theme park trip tonne there for her poorly son? The brand is disgusting, exploiting your child is awful but exploiting your child in their final days and carrying it on after their death is just, there truly is no words for it

Didnt she discharge him so she could go. He was clearly really poorly and getting worse. We could all see it on here. Yet, she was adamant she wasnt cancelling her birthday celebrations. So she (as always) disregarded the health professionals advice, claiming he was fine and that as always she knew best.
The last months of his poor little life were so sad to watch. She used him as a prop, to gain likes and to earn money to fund her lavish lifestyle.

Im sure she is riddled with guilt. It would be hard not to be. But she constantly put her own needs and social life above his. You just dont do that as a mother. Especially not with a terminally ill child you know you only have limited time with. He really was a beautiful, brave and brilliant little boy. I wish she had put his needs first. Listened to the professionals and made his short life more stable.

 

[Giftinghell]

I’ve followed these threads nearly since the beginning so saw all that went on, maybe others haven’t but I am gobsmacked that people think it’s ok. I don’t like to talk bad about someone grieving their child but after seeing the tik toks and it goes from death of a child to “stylish logo” real quick.

Yeah the stylish logo wording doesn’t read well does it

 

[Smallpotato]

Ah but she is notts county not city smaller and underfunded

ANYWAY regardless of where she lives.
The boy was failed!
all the apointments he has somebody should have picked up something

I’m notts county too! I always get it wrong

 

[ScrambledBegs]

Yeah the stylish logo wording doesn’t read well does it

Glad it wasn’t just me that thought that , seemed an odd thing to say

 

[Simbama12]

If anyone is new here and has the time to... get yourself a bottle of wine and a packet of biscuits and have a read through the previous threads on her.
There has been so much negligence from his mother throughout his life. Before he passed, things were getting increasingly worrying and sadly I think a lot of us saw it heading this way.
We've all seen the consistent missing medication, taking him off vital medication to make him poorly, going against many professionals and starving that poor boy. Buying hot tubs for a child with kidney problems. Leaving his tube hanging out, open to infection and letting it be pulled up his tops to show he's disabled.... all the while making his gastrostomy site bigger so she could score higher on the skin section of Continuing Health care. Every section in that carer criteria was looked at by her and used to make her boy worse so she wouldn't need to look after him.

He's been passed around to anyone who would have him, left carers in hospital with her poorly son so she could be at home getting pissed up with random men and boasting about her handbags in the hot tub she said she could never use for her because of her skin. The hot tub that was left to go mouldy and could have seriously damaged the mechanics but she couldnt give a tit about people's hard earned cash as long as its there to spend on her.

Letting her son play with knifes, putting coins in his mouth, never strapping him in car correctly, letting him open windows and doors with his feet in the car. Putting him in the death trap of a high chair she had previously insisted she needed a specialist chair. Lying about the feeding school taster not going ahead. Leaving her son in a children's hospice to go abroad to Paris, Venice.... with her ex bf.

All these designer goods she'd show off slyly but her son in the earlier days wore only a dirty pad which she'd allow him to take off and smear all over the carpet. The kittens she'd let tit and piss everywhere and never teach her son to be gentle. The selling from his hospital bed, using his starving to sell weighing scales.

The amount of insisting he couldn't move around but would then film him bum shuffling, standing, stepping. Insisting he couldn't toilet but then used him for potty training ads. Insisting he couldn't communicate at all but then all of a sudden could talk, use Makaton etc. Always making out his disabilities were more than they were to bring in the fundraisers.... the pity.... the carer appeals.

The boy never got the hype of Xmas or birthdays.In his own mothers words he didn't understand it. But then can be seen spelling words on his ipad. His mother's own ableism towards her son was sickening.

I hardly ever saw that poor boy have fun with his mother without the lavish holidays. lets face it those holidays were for her and he got dragged around. Hence the urge to get him eating so she could get abroad easier .He went to school then he'd be sat in that high chair with the ipad constantly. School transport to stick on another 2 hiurs child free j she'd have. No baking, no playing, no painting. The same day in day out. Unless he was being dragged to London to hand over to his dad so she could live the life she's always wanted. And even with school, transport, carers, his dad, her family she kept quiet... she still couldn't manage. She still would say she's late putting an ad together... missing appointments , missing feeds, missing sending paperwork off. What was she doing?setting up her candles and random mirror on the hallway for yet another posed selfish in her same cleavage showing top?? Face full of slap everyday but was so exhausted. Priorities. They were lacking and always were so wrong.

Everything has always been about her. The lifestyle she is clinging on to. Clinging to carers so she didn't have to actually parent her child. Taking every ad going and using her sons disability to get the engagement up for it.

Shes deleted some of the most outrageous stories and posts because she reads here.

I am gutted j was failed. I will not say my thoughts on blame .... but I know that boy was let down massively. I hope there's an inquest and they take on board issues raised by many people on here who have reported various things. Oh there's guilt there alright. I think she knows exactly her actions And scared abiut those consequences.Hence the photos of him just before he passed being over shared. Trying to prove he was OK when actually his body was screaming out it was being pushed to the limit.

His mother is in yet about lavish resort. Second holiday since his passing. Her friends with her all glammed up, going for expensive meals and drinks.... whose visiting his grave she said she hated being away from?all I see is someone cashing in on what shouldn't never be used to gain money, living the life in marrakesh and using personal and heartbreaking memories of his lifeless body to thousands of people to sell the brand.

I've never come across a thread so serious and sickening.

This is everything I feel and agree with but couldn’t or didn’t want to put into words. Felt sick reading what you wrote as it’s all true.

 

[Goldfish]

This is everything I feel and agree with but couldn’t or didn’t want to put into words. Felt sick reading what you wrote as it’s all true.

It’s honestly heartbreaking isn’t it? Seeing how that lovely little boy was so let down, not only by his own mother, by the lack of intervention

 

[longtimelurker86]

I just wanna know how Js dad is doing. I know it’s absolutely no one business but she used to slate him to high heaven and we all know he was more involved than she made out. He’s lost his baby. His boy.

 

[DiscoBiscuit]

Just to add, for anyone not up to speed, as well as the appalling ways she treated Jaxon, she also bitched about children's cancer wards. Apparently they're like 5 star hotels because the families who need them have access to games consoles and snacks.

 

[xxexposethemallxx]

Just to add, for anyone not up to speed, as well as the appalling ways she treated Jaxon, she also bitched about children's cancer wards. Apparently they're like 5 star hotels because the families who need them have access to games consoles and snacks.

No way

Unfortunately I only knew about Kaytee just after Jaxon died so wouldn’t know about previous things ie on her Instagram

 

[Cady1954]

I'm surprised there's not a wiki for her on here.

 

[Basicbasic]

One of the saddest sights was seeing j made to perform for ads. She had him pretending to eat McCain's fries when he was peg fed. He advertised pull ups when it was clear he was incontinent. Shame on the companies who paid for the total exploitation of a very poorly little boy.

 

[Shouldbedoingjobs]

I’ve been watching K’s stories with mounting disbelief since J passed away. I can not even imagine what it must be like to lose a child and I pray to God I’m never in that position. Though in the past I have certainly added to posts questioning her parenting and care of J it didn’t feel right to comment on things that have happened in the past
BUT i feel her current behaviour has well and truly brought her back to a place where things need to be said.
!. The Colours, his colours, the wearing blue and lining Trent Bridge (this by the way is only 10 mins from my house it was odd to see) I can never remember him having any connection to rainbow colours she certainly never dressed him in bright colours and his room was nothing short of bland.
2. the ’candid’ shots of her working from a luxury pool, hotel room in Morocco, never seen anything so staged in my life ! Not only did she get someone to take them but she then posted and tried to pass them off as oh I didn’t know the camera was there bollocks!!
3. A website selling merch for your son who has passed away is nothing short of odd and the T-shirt’s which feature him with angel wings are nothing short of sickening.
4. The grave is just awful, create something like that in your own garden or in a park at a push but in a space that is shared by other people who go to remember loved ones and spend quiet time in remembrance or reflection is beyond believe its tacky and disrespectful to both J’s memory and the people who’s loved ones are laid to rest in that space
5. The trip to Cornwall with family (Who were apparently) her rock but we’ve never seen or heard of as it didn’t suit her narrative to have support from anyone else except for the paid for carers
and finally what exactly IS happening with the funds from the website?
Sorry rant over but I just needed to say it

 

[Sendparent]

Didnt she discharge him so she could go. He was clearly really poorly and getting worse. We could all see it on here. Yet, she was adamant she wasnt cancelling her birthday celebrations. So she (as always) disregarded the health professionals advice, claiming he was fine and that as always she knew best.
The last months of his poor little life were so sad to watch. She used him as a prop, to gain likes and to earn money to fund her lavish lifestyle.

Im sure she is riddled with guilt. It would be hard not to be. But she constantly put her own needs and social life above his. You just dont do that as a mother. Especially not with a terminally ill child you know you only have limited time with. He really was a beautiful, brave and brilliant little boy. I wish she had put his needs first. Listened to the professionals and made his short life more stable.

I honestly dont think she feels guilty. If she did she would have changed her behaviour 18 months ago, she would have been more cautious not to make more mistakes but it's been one thing after the other. If she felt guilty she wouldn't be using him to make money from now. She wouldn't be turning him into a tacky brand or using footage from the chapel of rest in a tacky tiktok advert for the souvenir shop. I think she blames others and feels no responsibility for anything.