TheNurseMum #8

[Sendparent]

I had a look at Teemill to see how much everything costs. The adult t shirts cost £16.91, they recommend selling for a min of £19 giving a small profit of £2.09, but she's upped the price to £25 giving her just over £8 profit per t shirt. Tote bags costs £11.16 so she has upped it to £15 to give a £3.84 profit. If she is giving 10% to charity does that mean if someone orders a t shirt she will be donating 10% of the £25 or 10% of the profit? If it's 10% of the profit, that means they're going to be getting just 80p per £25 tee and 39p per tote bag.

With the amount of money she has received off people being charitable to her and her son over the years, she could have done this and donated 100% of the profit to charities as a thank you. Does she pay less tax if she donates to charities or is that just bigger businesses? If her influencer work and this is all being done under one business name would she pay less tax on her income from everything including the ads etc? 80p donation for a t shirt costing £25, its not much is it. Her website is run through Teemill, all items will have to come from them so if she wants to expand the range of items she is going to struggle as they don't have that many products to customise.

 

[Cariad]

I had a look at Teemill to see how much everything costs. The adult t shirts cost £16.91, they recommend selling for a min of £19 giving a small profit of £2.09, but she's upped the price to £25 giving her just over £8 profit per t shirt. Tote bags costs £11.16 so she has upped it to £15 to give a £3.84 profit. If she is giving 10% to charity does that mean if someone orders a t shirt she will be donating 10% of the £25 or 10% of the profit? If it's 10% of the profit, that means they're going to be getting just 80p per £25 tee and 39p per tote bag.

With the amount of money she has received off people being charitable to her and her son over the years, she could have done this and donated 100% of the profit to charities as a thank you. Does she pay less tax if she donates to charities or is that just bigger businesses? If her influencer work and this is all being done under one business name would she pay less tax on her income from everything including the ads etc? 80p donation for a t shirt costing £25, its not much is it. Her website is run through Teemill, all items will have to come from them so if she wants to expand the range of items she is going to struggle as they don't have that many products to customise.

I'm sure her followers will think she's donating the 10% of the £25/ t shirt and won't have a clue about the real donations...we know how transparent Kathleen has been about the go fund me monies

 

[TicTacToc]

He only has “colours” because baby A had orange and all their new webpage is orange and she’s just desperately trying to copy…

This is what I thought too. The other day she shared a post by them and so I went to look on their page. It’s so obvious Kaytee wants to be just like them, from the hospital visit posts, colours and even the grave site. It makes me quite uncomfortable to be honest.

I believe when Jaxon was first born and he was diagnosed with quite a lot of health problems & at the time he was allowed home a brand new home he was entitled to so many hours of Carers, but as Jaxon grew and at times thrived plus some of his medication stabilised he’s needs weren’t as high as they was when he was first born, she abused the carers used them as babysitters to go out get pissed come back drunk and even named and shamed a few of the Night Carers on her Instagram she went on tv saying that she needs xyz to keep herself & son alive? Kathleen stopped certain medications to make her life easier she also paid a feeding school which was Not Recommended by any of the health professionals involved with J & starved him more less, J dad was involved throughout his life yet Kathleen made out he wasn’t she also left Jaxon in a respite home to go on Holiday out of the Country with her new fella. The thing that annoys me the most is that she thought she knew better than any other highly qualified doctors specialists nurses at GOSH, QMC or any other health professional and was never happy with their advise or diagnoses she always had to complain or ask for 2nd 3rd 4th opinion and even when it was the same outcome as she was previously told she would then seek a private health professionals who she slagged off moaned about the cost & her time when they agreed with Gosh

It doesn’t sit well with me at all. The whole thing makes me uncomfortable. Especially how soon she has opened this J themed shop… in my opinion it’s just distasteful to try and profit from death, especially a child’s death.

 

[xxexposethemallxx]

Very uncomfortable what she’s doing , she needs to wake up a bit

 

[Sendparent]

I'm sure her followers will think she's donating the 10% of the £25/ t shirt and won't have a clue about the real donations...we know how transparent Kathleen has been about the go fund me monies

Someone I follow wrote on their stories last night that they had ordered t shirts, admitted they wont wear them but will keep them as a 'memento' of J and are really happy they get to donate to GOSH. They would have been better off donating direct, complete strangers dont need a memento of a child who has died. It's odd and disturbing. If people want to donate in Js name, they would be better off donating direct to GOSH or one of the charities that gave them free things despite her wealth. The 10% to charity is just a gimmick to maybe pay less tax on her earnings and to sell more items. Its exploiting the charities aswell as J.

 

[I’mThankyou_]

Until I see a screenshot from her of a donation going to GOSH, I don't believe for a second a penny will be donated.

 

[DiscoBiscuit]

I don't think there's much that hasn't been said about the actual products themselves, but I agree with every word.

I did wonder though if her only giving 10% is actually because she's got this delusional idea in her head that she's going to make a huge amount of money from this, and thinks 10% will actually be a large donation. She doesn't seem to have clicked yet that people followed her for Jaxon. They were following his journey, not hers. She's not the next big influencer she thinks she is.

I suspect that over the next few months a lot of her followers will stop following her. They were there to follow a little boy's story, watch him grow and develop. They're not going to be interested in watching his mother travel the world and push her new "brand." I think they'll wait what they feel is a respectable length of time and then press the unfollow button.

 

[GobShyte64]

I had a look at Teemill to see how much everything costs. The adult t shirts cost £16.91, they recommend selling for a min of £19 giving a small profit of £2.09, but she's upped the price to £25 giving her just over £8 profit per t shirt. Tote bags costs £11.16 so she has upped it to £15 to give a £3.84 profit. If she is giving 10% to charity does that mean if someone orders a t shirt she will be donating 10% of the £25 or 10% of the profit? If it's 10% of the profit, that means they're going to be getting just 80p per £25 tee and 39p per tote bag.

With the amount of money she has received off people being charitable to her and her son over the years, she could have done this and donated 100% of the profit to charities as a thank you. Does she pay less tax if she donates to charities or is that just bigger businesses? If her influencer work and this is all being done under one business name would she pay less tax on her income from everything including the ads etc? 80p donation for a t shirt costing £25, its not much is it. Her website is run through Teemill, all items will have to come from them so if she wants to expand the range of items she is going to struggle as they don't have that many products to customise.

isnt it cheaper to buy a cricut, vinyl and t-shirts and tote bags at wholesale and do them herself to make more of a profit thus more money going to charity?! Nearly £17 for a tshirt, she could do that for half the price if she did it herself! God forbid she do any actual work.

This is what I thought too. The other day she shared a post by them and so I went to look on their page. It’s so obvious Kaytee wants to be just like them, from the hospital visit posts, colours and even the grave site. It makes me quite uncomfortable to be honest.

she tags them in her posts too and gets her minions to mention her in saffs lives.. its weird & beggy. I’m all for networking but using the guise of your dead child is a bit uncomfortable. It just screams “like me, be my friend, lets make money off our grief together”

I stopped following her last night. I was only following for Jaxon really, god bless him. I was gutted that he passed for about a week after. No parent should have to bury their child. life can be so cruel.

 

[mrstakeaway]

All I can say is the charity she picks next month won’t be getting much after the opening day sales fall. Who else is going to buy anything.
the tote bags are ok I guess but everything else is just awful. It’s not nice designs and I’ve not seen Kaytee wear a T-shirt with Js photo on so don’t know how it’s sought after?

 

[I’mThankyou_]

I'm surprised she's not tried to set up a charity in Js name and tried to find a way she can keep the measly 10% donations for herself too. Let's face it, she's that money hungry she's gonna struggle to donate even just 10% of anything she makes. This isn't for J, this is for her to find a way to con a financial gain without technically working. All that money the NHS has spent on her training she should pay it back.

 

[Cady1954]

Apologies everyone , just spammed liked a lot of your comments

Beautiful boy on a T-shirt that strangers will probably be wearing ( weird to buy it )

What was her thought process?!

'I think I will make money from my dead son and make my sheep think It's helping with the grief process?'

 

[Basicbasic]

She won't make the t shirts herself because she doesn't do anything that requires her to work. I mean, she 'worked' on the website whilst floating in a super exclusive luxury pool in Morocco so that tells you something of the effort levels involved (and explains the terrible grammar). She's lazy AF.

And we all thought her lowest point was begging for supermarket vouchers and kofi funds from j's death bed....

 

[Sendparent]

In case anyone thinks she's being generous with the free delivery to celebrate the launch - Teemill have free delivery across everything all weekend till sunday. Love how she misleads people. I think alot of people have unfollowed. Socialblade is showing her followers have gone up by just 56, she has been shared by idiots repeatedly, I was expecting it to show hundreds if not thousands of new followers, I reckon she has had a lot of new followers but they've barely replaced the ones who have unfollowed.

 

[Cady1954]

She should move to Devon and work with that other scammer PTWM

 

[DiscoBiscuit]

I'm waiting for the snot-filled emotional blackmail stories after the day 1 sales drop off. Crying that she thought this would be a way to keep Jaxon's memory going, how she didn't realise it would be so hard, and how she feels she's failed him. Anything to boost her sales again.

I don't get how she thinks this will be a long term thing. I can't see her gaining many more genuine new followers from now on. Everyone was there for Jaxon. If she starts documenting her travels she might gain a few there, but they won't know about Jaxon so they won't really be interested in her shop. Once the die hards and her mates have bought something, I can't see it being enough to keep her in the manner she expects.

 

[dailyfaillurker]

She isn’t dealing with her grief by opening this shop, she’s stuck in the Denial stage. ‘I will keep him alive forever, I can still maintain the online persona I had before’. It’s not helping her with her grief to run this shop, it’s keeping her from moving on.

Anger is the next stage, so hold onto your hats for that.

 

[xxexposethemallxx]

She isn’t dealing with her grief by opening this shop, she’s stuck in the Denial stage. ‘I will keep him alive forever, I can still maintain the online persona I had before’. It’s not helping her with her grief to run this shop, it’s keeping her from moving on.

Anger is the next stage, so hold onto your hats for that.

Same with Ash Cain & his partner , but he’s using all this exercise as his coping mechanism. It doesn’t last long

 

[Anon3752]

This is not me accusing, but do you all think she was investigated at any point for this BLATANT exploitation of her ill and disabled son?? Surely the hospital should have a duty of care to provide her with grief support? She clearly needs it!

also its interesting that initially A&S (who recently set up a charity) dont know if i can say names. Were in support of her, i wonder how they feel seeing this? Theres no right way to grieve and everyone grieves differently. But surely she would be wanting to support other families inof children like J, so that this awful situation doesnt happen to anyone else, rather than just trying to fund the lavish lifestyle she so desperately wants???

 

[dailyfaillurker]

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Same with Ash Cain & his partner , but he’s using all this exercise as his coping mechanism. It doesn’t last long

There will have been an inquest I expect. Possibly ongoing.

 

[xxexposethemallxx]

This is not me accusing, but do you all think she was investigated at any point for this BLATANT exploitation of her ill and disabled son?? Surely the hospital should have a duty of care to provide her with grief support? She clearly needs it!

also its interesting that initially A&S (who recently set up a charity) dont know if i can say names. Were in support of her, i wonder how they feel seeing this? Theres no right way to grieve and everyone grieves differently. But surely she would be wanting to support other families inof children like J, so that this awful situation doesnt happen to anyone else, rather than just trying to fund the lavish lifestyle she so desperately wants???

You can say names , they have their own thread x