Honestly, I think it’s more down to depression. Everything I see of her gives the impression that she’s paddling hard under the surface but is never quite getting there. She suffered with PND after having the baby but I don’t think the SSRIs were the magic button that she’s made them out to be. I think they dug her out of a hole but she’s clearly not the person she was pre-baby. Where is Ross half the time? He used to feature a lot and even did segments on her home account. Now he’s always away or looking pissed off. And it’s hard parenting a baby/toddler. I feel like the whole unflattering clothes stuff and the weight gain is something that she’s conjured up as a way of dealing with how little she’s coping. It’s so much easier to throw on shit but comfortable clothes than to try. You get your endorphins (or whatever it is) from eating lots of lovely food because they’re not coming from anywhere else. I get it, I’ve been there, and if it is the case then I genuinely feel sad for her because it’s miserable. I don’t think you need to be thin or well presented to be happy, but I also think that how you present yourself to the world can say a lot about how you’re feeling about yourself.
Ross was fed up with her social media and even said as much in a story she did end up posting and thought was hilarious that Ross angrily asks her if she will post it.
Lottie is twice the size she was when they got married. While bodies and people change, Ross was attracted to one thing and now has something else entirely. Its not just her physician appearance but she was a successful woman, with a job and purpose. She had a different personality too and a LIFE! Now she sits at home or at Laura’s all the time, doing nothing but posing in her knickers and trying on clothes, being vulgar.
she was the one rushing the house reno and baby at the same time while also deciding to quit her job to be a full time influencer.
The house reno turned into a nightmare and it was constant drama. Ross’ family had to help them out more than once.
Lottie was in absolute denial about pregnancy and child birth and when it didn’t go to plan she was surprised and complained that “no one prepared her”.
i think after the whirlwind the last few years were, any marriage would feel the pressure but her forcing the picture perfect life won’t help.
Lottie is majorly in denial about many many things…
and rant over 
I'd be like nooo thank you. 
