She’s the one who put the focus on the guy in the background. I can’t tell you what Tim and his boyfriend were talking about because I was only watching the blurred man and his tablemate. It looked like she was laughing at whatever the blurred man was doing. The way his hand is blurred, I think he was making hand gestures at some point and I’m sure he was making faces too. Her excuse for blurring him is BS. Saying that “he was staring into the camera the whole time” isn’t a very kind way to say it, so she was obviously annoyed by him. She could’ve said “He was looking into the camera too much” or “the camera was putting too much focus on him”, etc. I hope this starts happening more and more with people causing “distractions” for them in the background.