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She was upset cause she just couldn’t bring herself to cook dinner. You have to wonder if Dimmy contributes to that guilt. He doesn’t seem to be able to cook a damn thing but frozen waffles & a smoothie. He seems to never make lunch. The last thing a mother of a newborn should be concerned about is making every meal.
Honestly for the betterment of the children I hope she gets the help she needs. They have Tele-therapy, this is the one time I wish there pathetic grifting would reach out to betterhelp.com for a sponsorship, you are raising two children FFS and have ignored your mental health issues for years.
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Tim can prepare butter for his son to eat apparently.
Even if she’s unwilling to drive (frankly if I was that desperate to ditch my baby and I didn’t drive it sure would light a fire under my ass to get back behind the wheel but I guess she’s waiting until beyond rock bottom to get there if ever), she could pick up some hobbies besides scrolling Instagram, shadowbanning and binging Bravo.
Have Dim drive you to a nursery and pick up some cacti or succulents to nurture (maybe that would inspire her to be more maternal? Nah.) Have Dim drop you off at a shelter to volunteer and meet people besides thirsty stans. Take an Uber to the library (since she’s such a voracious reader you guyzzzz, she maybe read half a book in Hawaii!) and check out books or see what activities they offer - libraries are such an underutilized resource. Do some scrapbooking. Learn a new language.
I know, I know, this is all way too much beyond her. If she doesn’t get her ass in therapy to hear from someone besides enabling and coddling Dim and the stans, I don’t know how she doesn’t end up becoming like an unlikeable beyond-stupid version of Brendan Fraser’s character in The Whale.
Have Dim drive you to a nursery and pick up some cacti or succulents to nurture (maybe that would inspire her to be more maternal? Nah.) Have Dim drop you off at a shelter to volunteer and meet people besides thirsty stans. Take an Uber to the library (since she’s such a voracious reader you guyzzzz, she maybe read half a book in Hawaii!) and check out books or see what activities they offer - libraries are such an underutilized resource. Do some scrapbooking. Learn a new language.
I know, I know, this is all way too much beyond her. If she doesn’t get her ass in therapy to hear from someone besides enabling and coddling Dim and the stans, I don’t know how she doesn’t end up becoming like an unlikeable beyond-stupid version of Brendan Fraser’s character in The Whale.
I haven’t watched the vlog yet but has she had any vistors (not paid nanny)? Friends of hers popping in while Tim is out filming and making coffee for her while chatting a chat? I doubt it. It’s no wonders she’s struggling to watch the footage of Tim out at the carnival having fun. I know she’s burnt her own bridges with friendships but you can see why she would be struggling
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I had a baby last summer, he is almost 9 months old. My partner works at night so I don’t have anyone else to get up and do the night feedings (not really needed so much now with him being 9 months old) or the diaper changes and there were times that it did bother me. I understood that my partner is working to provide for us, making decent money driving a truck overnight (he is home during the day and on the weekends just gone overnight) and there were still feelings of resentment for a bit.
The thing is, I have people I could talk to about this in real life and was able to work through these feelings. Jenn is just talking into a camera and not actually working through any feelings.
She needs therapy.
I also think they would benefit more from a housekeeper than a nanny.
Yep. She had to day to herself and couldn't come up with anything fun to do. She convinced herself that was due to needing to run 3 loads of laundry and 2 loads of dishes. Those of us who actually adult know that those types of chores actually take very little time and effort. It's a very sad excuse from a very lonely isolated person.
I'm not going to make light of post Partum depression cause it does hit and its awful. But we are talking J4dinners here. This is true FOMO. And instead of uploading the megacon video it's all Jenn. Once again if they upload it at any point now it's after the fact.
Timmy we know you read here it's time to put the camera down and get your wife the help she needs. Think of those 2 beautiful children.
Timmy we know you read here it's time to put the camera down and get your wife the help she needs. Think of those 2 beautiful children.
I do think it’s possible that she has the legit baby blues. Which is totally understandable. And I do think she desperately needs a friend but that’s not gonna happen.
I think where she sounds like a brat is saying that Tim gets to go out and do fun stuff while she has to stay home and nurse. Wasn’t she the one complaining she didn’t get a maternity leave? Well you have one. How about just chilling and trying to enjoy your new baby. And is Tim really having fun at a carnival or MegaCon? With her probably texting him 500x? You know he’s sweating trying to rush back.
She should just switch to formula and pass him off to a nanny so she can go back to gallivanting with Tim every day. (I don’t think there is anything wrong with formula, I am sincerely saying this)
I think where she sounds like a brat is saying that Tim gets to go out and do fun stuff while she has to stay home and nurse. Wasn’t she the one complaining she didn’t get a maternity leave? Well you have one. How about just chilling and trying to enjoy your new baby. And is Tim really having fun at a carnival or MegaCon? With her probably texting him 500x? You know he’s sweating trying to rush back.
She should just switch to formula and pass him off to a nanny so she can go back to gallivanting with Tim every day. (I don’t think there is anything wrong with formula, I am sincerely saying this)
If you can’t bear the thought of your husband going off to ‘work’ and leaving you to look after the ‘miracle’ children why in the name of god did you ever have children in the first place? My husband went off at 8am and came home at 6pm, I often didn’t have access to our car but I did it. This is what mums around the world do day in day out. What makes it so hard for you Jenn? You need to grow up, and quick. You’re supposed to be the adult here.
Too bad she burned the bridge with her friend Kayleigh. She’s also in for MegaCon repping her retail store. It could have been a nice visit.
He's comparing a three week old who drinks only boob juice/formula with a three year old who's picky as three year olds can be, I remember mine liking something her dad had for lunch and he had leftover for dinner and she declared it yucky.
She really doesn't see how good she has it. She is able to stay home and raise her children. But she doesn't want to stay home. Then get the help you need so you can drive again. I worked nights when my children were small but that didn't stop me from grocery shopping, cleaning and cooking. Normal Mom chores we all do. These 2 assets should never have had children. And Jenn you burned all your bridges so friends, family, anyone who can help is out of the picture. So sad.
Yep.
My mother was similar to you when I was little. My father had our only car and he'd take it to work 8-6 like your DH. So if my mom and I needed to go anywhere, we'd walk to the bus stop and take the bus downtown or whatever... to go to the doctor, or pay bills, etc. OR we'd just walk - to the grocery store, to the library, etc. - and these were probably like 45-mins walks to places in all sorts of weather (snow, rain, etc.)
I know this was up north at the time, and Jenn is not likely to do that given where they live in Lake Nona and doubtful she'd ride the bus ... BUT don't they have another vehicle sitting there in the garage?
She's going to have to learn to suck it up for the sake of her children and start driving again.
Like someone else mentioned above, she's had plenty of time to fix some of her issues BEFORE they had kids... ya know, being infertile and all.
But now the tit is hitting the literal fan and it's only going to get worse if she doesn't get herself in the right place mentally.
ETA: I 100% agree with @Forest. I don't discount PPD but it's Jenn we're talking about. She's cried wolf for so many years about so many things, it's hard to take anything she says seriously at this point. So it's likely 90% true FOMO and 10% PPD, given her history.
And this is why you don't cry wolf, Jenn.
Are there no mother & baby groups in the US? We have post natal groups here in the U.K. where you’re put in touch with other mums in the same position with the same age babies. It can be a life saver
I think the issue here is that Jenn doesn’t want time to herself, she wants time, away from the house, with Tim. And I do understand this, wanting one on one time with just your spouse and not the kids but most parents with two small children are not getting a whole lot of time to just themselves.
If they didn’t burn bridges with all their friends and family, it would be easy to have one of them come and stay with the kids while Tim and Jenn had a date night or went out to the parks for a bit.
They definitely did not consider any of this even though they had almost a year to come up with a plan.
It might be post partum but I just think it's everything else. We guessed she would be like this. The problem is her diet, how spoiled they have become and her FOMO. Spoiled also with Jackson sleeping so much and now he wants to be like a regular boy. I also think that this breakdown could be caused from some of the hired help leaving. She definitely has issues that need therapy but they are just intensified now and it looks like post partum depression but I think it's just as we guessed, everything coming to halt. She was living on a constant vacation and so her lifestyle is completely out of reality. I have never seen anyone needing to go on so many vacations and thinking about it when they have a newborn? Dim went to that stupid fair, she was jealous of that?
Dim is not attached to that baby and that is not helping.
They both need therapy and not talking to weirdo strangers through a camera.
I feel bad if it is post partum but I honestly just think she has become a spoiled brat.
Oh and Ginn...yes Jackson used to eat everything but then you started plopping fries in front of him to keep him quiet, so he doesn't know what he likes now. He doesn't like nutritious food and he is bored with junk food because it's not a treat anymore.
Dim is not attached to that baby and that is not helping.
They both need therapy and not talking to weirdo strangers through a camera.
I feel bad if it is post partum but I honestly just think she has become a spoiled brat.
Oh and Ginn...yes Jackson used to eat everything but then you started plopping fries in front of him to keep him quiet, so he doesn't know what he likes now. He doesn't like nutritious food and he is bored with junk food because it's not a treat anymore.
Heart attack at 4, way to go Trackholes!!!Not only does Tim allow Jackson to slather the butter on his waffle.
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Prior to this Jackson was just eating a pat(s??) of butter
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She’s just unwilling to admit this is reality and she can only escape so much of it. Welcome to life Ginn. You birthed it, you bear it. It’s so irresponsible and disgusting that they procreated twice (and let’s seriously hope not any more).
She needs to be able to practice doing some things alone but of course she’s too dependent on Dim and he’s too controlling and enabling. Seriously seems depressing AF, but hey happiness is measured by cuntcierge cruises and Gucci sweaters, right?
I just don’t understand how they haven’t put any thought into what happens if Dim bites the dust. I’m guessing they’re the kind of parents that assume their kids will take on the burden of caring for her incompetent ass, but that’s quite a gamble and tit reason for anyone to procreate.
They might be more willing to take care of their egg donor if she bothered being a nurturing mother who has any sort of protective instincts.
She needs to be able to practice doing some things alone but of course she’s too dependent on Dim and he’s too controlling and enabling. Seriously seems depressing AF, but hey happiness is measured by cuntcierge cruises and Gucci sweaters, right?
I just don’t understand how they haven’t put any thought into what happens if Dim bites the dust. I’m guessing they’re the kind of parents that assume their kids will take on the burden of caring for her incompetent ass, but that’s quite a gamble and tit reason for anyone to procreate.
They might be more willing to take care of their egg donor if she bothered being a nurturing mother who has any sort of protective instincts.
Jenn get yourself some friends that aren’t fellow vloggers. Join a mothers group and see what the real world is like! Debrief to real parents and not to a camera and crazy deluded Stans. Seek real advice from actual people, rather than researching from Dr google. Oh, and bleeping start driving again.
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