I agree, no atmosphere, no music and borrrrring conversations being had left, right and centre. No fun games or the fun was sacked right out of them. When I compare this to the one I did for my daughter 3 years ago, there is no comparison, I made the cake and my friend made the decoration fir the top herself. We didn't spend loads of money on twatty, tatty cakes and those hideous boards with Oh baby written all over them. I found loads of games from Google and we had fun, there was no one dressed as a hooker smuggling a beach ball in her crotch. No one there with inches of make up. All my friends and my daughters friends rallied round with different tea sets, and all baked cakes, made sandwiches etc for the cream tea we had. I think that people with money just buy as much tat and show off, when you have true friends and family that actually cares for each other it will always be fun, that awful atmosphere there and the awkward behaviour of Chloe opening 1000000000 baby grows was very telling if you ask me, dead borrrrring!
Sorry I don't mean to be rude to you, I just want to make you aware of something. None of us know which pronoun they want to use, as it has not been specified by the person. I have seen them dress more masculine, but with makeup on. I think the post was respectful of the fact we don't know how this person identifys. It gets a bit much for me when people act like they should police other people about this topic, its a tad hypocritical to address them in this way, to make them feel bad about an innocent comment, which was actually very complimentary, especially when none of us know this person or how they like to be addressed.