Back in the 80’s loads of girls I was at school with age 14 were going out with older lads age 18-21. We never thought anything of it 
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He’s constantly impregnating someone he groomed.
Sue clearly favours the girls, especially Hallie and Phoebe. She rarely interacts with the boys and also treats them much more harshly, often shouting at them etc but she never does that with the girls. It's pretty obvious in the recent video. One of the boys wants to take a duvet or something on holiday and she shouts 'put it back we arent taking that!', one of the girls says 'haha' at him and Sue laughs. She clearly has favourite children and seems to resent the boys.
I agree, I met with a few friends today and we got chatting about The Radfords and each and every one of them couldn't believe they were having another baby and think it's for content for YouTube. One of my friends said they have changed a lot since the 16 KAC days.
It was mentioned about all the holidays they go on and how the magic pie shop must be a very lucrative business
Oh I most definitely agree with this, I've noticed it alot that the girls are favoured. I often feel sorry for the boys to be honest.
I went to school between 2007-2012 and it was even normal then to be honest.Back in the 80’s loads of girls I was at school with age 14 were going out with older lads age 18-21. We never thought anything of it
Makes me laugh all the comments saying he must be a pweirdo, have people actually heard themselves? He was 17 and she was 13, if people can think back to when they were that age, it was hardly a huge age gap and he was hardly a “man”, it’s not like he was 30, married with two kids and had a full time career for gods sake
when I was 14, my best friend had an 18 year old boyfriend, they had a long relationship and eventually lived together and nearly got married. When I was 17, I had 18 year old friends who were going out with 13/14 year olds, we met because we had mutual friends, nothing pervy about it, people need to get a grip
Also, does anyone remember that video published by the sausage roll mum who was harassed by them? Shocking really...she got a load of abuse because she said that they have a nanny as she lives around the corner from them and saw her...
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I am the same age as Sue. I can remember being 13 and I got my first period at that age, not my first child. Being able to remember being 13 does not mean I’m now comfortable with a 13 yr old having sex with a man 4 years and 9 months older. He would have been 5 school years older. I have a daughter who is 13. This would be the equivalent of her in year 8 going out with someone in sixth form. I get that you find it hilarious and it’s your right to think of a child having sex as funny and a laugh, but perhaps this vulnerable young girl wouldn’t have gone on to continually have babies and nothing else, not even focus on those children past 14 months.I went to school between 2007-2012 and it was even normal then to be honest.
Makes me laugh all the comments saying he must be a pweirdo, have people actually heard themselves? He was 17 and she was 13, if people can think back to when they were that age, it was hardly a huge age gap and he was hardly a “man”, it’s not like he was 30, married with two kids and had a full time career for gods sake
when I was 14, my best friend had an 18 year old boyfriend, they had a long relationship and eventually lived together and nearly got married. When I was 17, I had 18 year old friends who were going out with 13/14 year olds, we met because we had mutual friends, nothing pervy about it, people need to get a grip
Also, does anyone remember that video published by the sausage roll mum who was harassed by them? Shocking really...she got a load of abuse because she said that they have a nanny as she lives around the corner from them and saw her...
I also have a 19 year old son. If at 17 he had been having sex with a 13 yr old, I would not have laughed at how normal this all was, I would have been seriously concerned.
There is a huge difference between a man of 18 and a girl of 13 no matter how much you want to trivialise it.
For half her pregnancy Sue was 13 and Noel 18. It’s gross. He is gross, and that is not normal.
It definitely isn't normal, can you remember being 18.. Did you find 13 year old boys attractive? No? Didn't think so!
When I was 14/15 (2005) it was ‘normal’ to chat to/meet up with males 18-25+ but now look at all those online weirdo groups that are catching those men for doing exactly that.
It did go on but it wasn’t right. Very unsavoury then and now.
13 is so young! Obviously some people mature more quickly than others but my cousin is 13 and last year asked for a doll for Christmas
Whereas 17 year olds can drive! It’s a huge age gap at that age!
However I do think it’s damaging for people to call him a pedophile in public forums and the media, there’s 20 kids there who shouldn’t have to read that about their dad and it’s true that they have stayed together (and that’s it as far as we will probably ever know)
Whereas 17 year olds can drive! It’s a huge age gap at that age!
However I do think it’s damaging for people to call him a pedophile in public forums and the media, there’s 20 kids there who shouldn’t have to read that about their dad and it’s true that they have stayed together (and that’s it as far as we will probably ever know)
Soz but even if it was "normal" back when you were a teenager, it doesn't make it right at all. A 17 year old and a 13 year old are WORLDS apart. I don't think it makes him a pedalo, but I do think it says something about a power dynamic there.
When you are 35 and married to a 45 year old, the 10 year age gap means nothing as your both in a similar stage of your lives together.
When your 13 and 17/18 , that 4/5 year age gap is massive.
The difference between my 13year old self and my 17 year old self are Worlds apart. If my son was seeing a 13 year old girl at 17 I would be having serious words with him. It just wouldn't be allowed. However I do think that they were in a different to normal situation, both being in the care system I think changes things as they found a person who understood what the other had been through. However that being said, even though I understand the connection they say they had, sex should not have been a part of that "relationship" while sue was still a child and for that, he was very wrong.
When your 13 and 17/18 , that 4/5 year age gap is massive.
The difference between my 13year old self and my 17 year old self are Worlds apart. If my son was seeing a 13 year old girl at 17 I would be having serious words with him. It just wouldn't be allowed. However I do think that they were in a different to normal situation, both being in the care system I think changes things as they found a person who understood what the other had been through. However that being said, even though I understand the connection they say they had, sex should not have been a part of that "relationship" while sue was still a child and for that, he was very wrong.
I have a 17 year old nephew there is no way he would even be interested in a 13 year old
Agree with everything you have written here.
Oh jeez get a grip, when did I say any of it was funny? I said it was hilarious how people keep on and on calling him a pweirdo when he clearly isn’t! I’m sorry but I don’t agree, I went through this myself and had friends with older boyfriends and when I was older I had friends with younger girlfriends, we were all in the same friendship group and there was nothing strange about it at all. Everyone matures at different ages...at the end of the day my point was he isn’t a pweirdo, didn’t say it wasn’t wrong for her to have a baby so young or anything else!
Hi, I'm new to this but been following for a while. Unfortunately he can't be classed as a pweirdo but he can definitely be called a statutory rapist, as no child will be able to make the monumental decision to have consensual sex at that age. Was she groomed? We will never know, but I would for someone on live TV during an interview, to ask his older kids about there feelings towards underage sex, and statutory rape. I also don't understand why everyone is like oh it was totally normal when I was that age for adults to be interested in little girls, as that would mean that what was normal in the 60's 70's and 80's and has been majorly publicised in the media and press was also okay. And I can tell you now if any of your children came home that age saying they were pregnant by an adult you will no doubt be going straight to your local police station
I don’t think anyone can say that it’s ok because they knew people who did the same - none of us are aware of how mature Sue was at 13. And even if they were on the same wavelength, if they intended to be together, they should have waited until she was 16 and it was legal.
I agree with you and although i dont think its ok for men to be sleeping with young teens, if I think back to when I was 13/14, I was out with older friends including men in their 20s and we would go out to the pubs drinking etc. I was very mature for my age (too much so). It was the 'norm' to have a group of friends ranging from 13 up to about 23, we all done the same things and age wasnt even a thing..
As the 13 year old in this situation, it may have seemed normal to you but the adults involved should have known better. Why would people in their 20s be socialising with 13 year olds? I find that very strange. And sexual relationships between people of those ages is not ok. However mature you feel at that age, if an adult has sex with you it’s an abuse of power and position.
Yeah, I do agree with what you're saying. It did feel normal to socialize with older men back then, we were mentally older and they were mentally younger but i totally get what you're saying. I have daughters and would literally chop the balls off of any man that went near them at that age. A little bit condtradictory I know as I was a nightmare teen myself.
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