Agreed they made iddy biddy Isla the favourite dinky dot and Sarah’s little princess for a long long time, when Jace was on the way lazy should have prepared Isla for the change and also made efforts to make her feel secure and loved especially by spending one on one time with her so she didn’t feel replaced by her brother. The way isla was replaced was so brutal then Mila came and it only got worse for isla when Isla asked to hold the baby first she should have been allowed because she understood but again ehe was pushed out very publicly, I wouldn’t do that to any child if they asked specifically it’s so mean. Then we could see the mothers eye rolling and impatience with isla she had no patience for her and just wanted her gone upstairs with her sisters but they didn’t want her because they’d had their own thing going on for years and maybe they also had resentments of when she was the favourite all in all it’s messed Isla up big time she needs a lot of help love her.Completely disagree with the people who said Isla was attention seeking
Having studied psychology and mental health, her reaction was unfortunately very real. The level of hyperventilating, shaking and hysterical crying shows she can’t regulate her emotions and experiences a very heightened stress response. Without therapy, it will continue into adulthood and she’s going to be unable to deal with any form of stress.
At 5:40, you can see her realise that she can’t catch her breath and can’t regulate her breathing properly, and you can see the fear on her face while she tries to calm herself down and starts wringing her hands, before it quickly cuts away. None of her body language shows that she is happy or excited, it shows stress and anxiety.
Out of all the children, she worries me the most.
You cannot play with a child like that and pick them up and drop them down when you feel like it and expect that child to be okay.
I think Isla’s birthday just about sums it up a load of pound shop tat and baby toys plus no day out it will be interesting to see what Esme gets
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