I think there is an insta v reality aspect with moving to the country. Yes it’s beautiful, peaceful, more space/ more for your money, but your commute gets longer and work opportunities dwindle unless your WFH. The kids are more isolated and you lose that community feel with neighbours/ neighbourhood kids etc. I also tend to consider what it would be like as they grow older. For my kids I want a proximity to a vibrant, busy life; local town, big cities, a social life, shopping, colleges and opportunities. I’ve moved further out from the city but not too far, in fact I would like to be a bit closer. I also wouldn’t want them coming home down dark country lanes as teens so would spend my life ferrying them everywhere.