I too am from a Christian family (Grandad,Uncle and now Mum all Vicars). All our family are professionals from Speech and Language therapists to Nurses, Drs and Teachers, we are all also Mothers or Fathers. I lost my dad age 9 and my mum had to work so myself and my sister had to do chores after school get tea etc. We were forced to grow up to quickly thro trauma. I missed my entire teenage yrs because of the responsibility i had at home. I went to university in my home town becuase there was no way of paying for accommodation so i stayed at home. My mum became disabled and thro my student yrs at uni i was also caring for my mum, paying the bills and keeping house. Yes i was able to because i had done it from a very early age but not because i was expected to, but we had to. Tim n Ella have the choice not to give the kids the responsibility they do. They have the choice to prepare breakfast for their own kids rather than they get it for themselves and siblings. They have the choice to cook,clean and play with them but they dont. I now have a 2yr old and my day is purely caring, playing, loving, kissing, laughing, singing and anything else we find to do because i can, because i want to. I want my daughter to have the childhood we didnt have, not because my mum was a poor parent but because we didnt get the choice, she had to work and we had to help. Ella is trying to make it about culture and its not. This is their decision so why the hell do they expect others to pick up the pieces. They are both at home 24/7,a luxury at lot of children do not have, yet they are only ever seen sat or instructing, not actually interacting with them x