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iDontCare51

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I know the family personally & there’s probably a few things you should know. Firstly, Tim doesn’t work & hasn’t really experienced a hard days graft in his life. Ella on the other is a workaholic, the complete opposite, and not by choice. If you go back to ‘how they met’, one of the first vlogs they made, dates were fabricated to make it seem like she was older than she was. That being said Tim’s character becomes clearer. He is extremely fortunate to have family who fund his life but he gives the impression he works ‘hard’ for it. All his chips are on Heze becoming a professional footballer. On the flip, Ella will wake up early, wash/dress the children, go do a full days work, then return home to an messy house & a husband asking where his dinner is. In my experience, the children are victims. All of them are so lovely by nature but unfortunately have been damaged by this ‘youtube celebrity life’. It’s ALL staged & extremely unhealthy! I could literally go on for hours but it’s better I leave it here. To summarise, as a brand they are full of crap.
 
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Laurennat

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If there such a Christian family why does the dad act like a road man 🤣🤣🤣 it’s actually cringes me out a grown man talks and acts the way he does just because your married to a Caribbean women doesn’t mean you can start acting like ur from there 😂😂
 
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RosieBella-01

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Can you imagine encountering and having to deal with them in the hospital.

You have Tim who couldn't be bothered to wash the sleep gunk out of his eyes that morning so his eyes were glued half shut & giving a cermon in the lobby.
Then you have ghetto fabulous Ella ripping off her mask like a crazed lunatic having an outburst trying to square up to the receptionist with her plastic braids knocking the kids out one by one.

Then you have Harper who can't get a word in edgeways because their all screaming & jumping and she is dying to say her rehearsed lines.

Then you have Hosanna popping, locking, twerking & moon-walking while throwing dirty looks & eyerolling at the receptionist thinking shes a big woman.

Then you have Houston doing her pig squeal interfering the machinery signal & shattering windows.

Then you have Halle walking around staring at everyone with a dazed look on her face until she sees the camera then puts her hand on her hip & blows a kiss giving attitude.

Then you have Reu throwing crip gang signs & smacking everyone.

Then you have Heze all up in Ellas uterus while kicking a football at everything. Calm down hun your in a hospital not the world cup final.
 
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RosieBella-01

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Yes, Tim's biological sister that was in their first videos is now a lesbian and now they no longer talk to her. She was vlogging for a while and said on a q and a that sadly they are no longer in touch.
Thats awful. Who are Tim & Ella to have an opinion on somebody elses lifestyle when they can't even get their own life together. But it was ok to have her around when he thought he would make money from they adoption story. I noticed he doesn't bother with his birth mother anymore either only his birth father. I find it heartless that they introduced the kids to his birth mothers side then ditched them.

How can they claim to be Christian. They never go to church, Ella & Tim dislike their own races, they judge appearance, they judge races & skin colour, they favour genders, they dislike LGBTQ, they don't put their children first, they don’t help others, they let their kids dance to inappropriate music, they don't teach the kids manners, they prefer money & materialistic items than education, they refuse to work, they treat their kids as slaves. They use people.

These two fools can't dare say they are Christian or traditional. I'm Christian. I'm not perfect, I wasn't raised strict with religion. I don't go to church, except for weddings or funerals etc. I don't even really pray. But I know 100% that my parents always told me that my religion is to be kind, help others & never hurt people & mind my own business when it comes to peoples skin or differences. Thats all the religion i needed to live by.

As for traditional. What tradition are they following, cave man era? Because my home was traditional. Dad went to work, mum stayed at home until we all started school. Mum went back to work. Mum did most of the cooking and cleaning Dad did all the heavier jobs like garden stuff, bins, repairs, car washing, redecorating. Both parents did school runs, dad did cleaning & cooking when mum was busy or needed a break. Both parents took turns with everything. Thats a traditional household in my eyes. Woman being chained to a sink & the man sleeping all day is not traditional. Its abusive
 
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Cherry B

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I think that a lot of these family vlog channels are exploitative on some level, but I find these parents to be especially egregious. On many other family channels I have watched the kids AT LEAST seem to be benefiting somewhat from their work on the channel. The parents take the kids on shopping sprees, nice family vacations, and eventually they buy a bigger home to accommodate everyone. The kids make money for the channel, but we also get to see them reap some of the benefits. It seems like these parents are hogging a lot of the money for themselves. They buy themselves luxurious clothes, and go on getaways to nice hotels. The kids get none of that. The housing situation confuses me because if they actually got a free home from Tim's parents wouldn't a sell result in all profit? The profit, combined with the money they are already making should be enough to find something bigger. If they can afford a BMW, and Louboutins they can afford another home. I bet if Tim and Ella were told they had to share their bedroom with 3 other people they would be trying harder to look for a new house. I hope for the kid's sake that this new baby is a boy. Putting a newborn in Heze, and Rue's small room isn't ideal. But, I just can't imagine cramming a 5th child into the girl's room. Poor Halle, and Harper already share a bed. What's the game plan for when they are older and they physically can't share the bed? Hoping for twins?! How irresponsible! No consideration for how this will effect the kid's living arrangements. Ella's dad said he worked hard, and got the family a 5 bedroom house. She only has 2 sisters I believe, so she probably grew up with a room to herself. Tim was clearly spoiled as a child, and hasn't had to lift a finger. They say they don't need a bigger home, but they do. It might even be different if they said they simply couldn't afford it right now, but they are acting like it's not even in the cards. It's like they want this “humble” life for their kids that they didn't even grow up in even though the kids are the ones paying the bills.

I really feel for these kids. The gender role stuff is disturbing. Halle wanted to play soccer, but Ella's afraid she won't be as feminine so that's never going to happen. She could be just as good or better than Heze for all she knows. Besides at her age it's mainly about having fun. It's not that serious. That video where Ella was sick, and Hosanna had to take over the house was crazy. They've clearly left her in charge many times before because Tim had no urgency to get back home. The practice was unnecessary to begin with, but then to go and get a haircut afterwards? What the heck?! These kids should be in a real school imo. Homeschooling can be beneficial when done well, but they clearly aren't doing it right. It might be best for Heze to be homeschooled because he's already tried it, and it didn't work out. It's also best for his soccer schedule I guess. Although I still don't think they gave it a fair shake with him at least he got to experience it. None of the others have ever had the opportunity. I think Harper, and Rue would especially thrive in a school setting. Harper is an avid reader, and Rue is very sharp. Halle has an outgoing personality, and would fit right in I think. Houston is still very young so she would also fit right in as well. Hosanna would probably need more help catching up, but it could be done with some effort. Of course this won't happen because the parents are keeping a tight rein on them. They should want them in school too. It would give everybody a break, and give the kids much needed socialization.


They need to invest more in their family. Spending some money upfront on fun activities will make their channel more interesting, which will result in more viewers in the long run. Ella shouldn't have to get pregnant every 2 years for them to have something to talk about. It gets boring after awhile anyway. I want to see the kids having some real fun. We've had enough hair videos to last a lifetime. Do more adventurous things. Rent an RV for a few days, and explore the English countryside for example. Maybe go camping, or fishing. When it's safe have another family fun day, and set up activities for the kids to do. Invite their grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins. Covid should be taken into consideration, but it doesn't seem like they take it seriously anyway. It would be interesting to see how they interact with other kids. They could also do more practical things. Do grocery hauls, and show us what they eat in a week. How much does it cost to feed their large family? I doubt they still have the dog, but if they do they could do a series of videos just focused on the dog. People love animals in general, especially when they are babies. They could show us the puppy's first bath and walk. Show us the kids playing with the dog. Have the girls dance to appropriate songs, and show us how they come up with some appropriate dance routines.


They also need to invest more in their viewers. They shouldn't be pulling away saying things like “We don't have time to read your comments”. They are lying anyway because they delete comments all the time, and also like some of them. You have to be taking the time to read them in order to do that. They just don't want to take the time to write a short message to acknowledge these people that support them loyally. Do a livestream every once in a while, and say hello to some of the viewers. They could even do a giveaway. Giveaway a Grimwade Gang sweathshirt or something. I'm sure some people would love that. That's how you grow viewership. It's why YouTubers with millions of subscribers still do stuff like this because they know it creates engagement, and keeps people interested. Like someone said a few pages back I've never seen them do something that didn't benefit themselves. All they do is beg for money (like when they set up the Patreon), and take. As Christians shouldn't they be more giving? They could do some charity work like helping the homeless. That would make a nice video. But, it seems like the focus is only on how people can help them.
 
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StrattyNeet

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One thing that irritates me about them is how the boys (especially Heze since he’s the oldest) are praised for the smallest of things that they do that every child of his age should be doing imo. Like for example theres a full video entitled “9 year old sets the table for his whole family” or something along those lines and not a few months later theres another one of Hosanna making a full roast dinner by herself (impressive for an 8 year old, a lot of adults can’t do that). I just think he’s over praised and under disciplined (Reu getting in trouble for literally copying heze with the ball in the shop???)
It’s a really sexist household... Ella runs herself ragged domestically. The girls are encouraged to cook clean tidy look after younger siblings. While Heze in particular is encouraged to kick that ball around lest we forget he is going to be the next Lionel Messi and do nothing domestically like his lazy arse father Tim. I feel that the girl really suffer from the family dynamic. Heze gets to mix with other boys his own age. The girls get to mix with each other. They did do cheerleading but I couldn’t imagine Ella taking 2/3 girls to competitions while Heze - the potential cash cow- is taken to football by pushy Tim. The homeschooling is poor. But why wouldn’t it be. Ella has barely the time to draw breath. He struck lucky with that woman... her upbringing and faith meant that when it came to them settling down and marrying and having a family she defers to him. He has an over inflated view of himself and did I mention he is lazy. He has grown their YouTube channel... in fact how the blazes has it grown... it’s really poor. With titles like the children choose Ella’s next hair colour. Really?! I mean Really?! But by all account the homeschool Christian angle is a hit in the US.... They are starting to come across as a closed sect.... modern day Amish...The girls are always dressed the same... individualism isn’t encouraged.... Which is at odds with Tim’s dodgy toe curling attempts at Patois and roadman mannerisms
 
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Eye_Spy

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The entitlement of this couple is disgusting. They have the cheek to not only try to do something that is obviously not likely to be allowed, but also have their son playing with a football at a hospital entrance, and their kids squealing with excitement in a place where other patients could be receiving devastation news or be in a lot of pain needing peace and quiet

They have a cheek to be annoyed with the NHS, or people who are highly trained, work long hours, and any polices they put in place are for patient and staff safety and to try to reduce risks of having to cancel appointments by trying to prevent their staff getting sent home for tests or isolation. It’s a medical appointment, not a party, not a family day out. If the ultrasound was to look at tumour, the procedure and consulting room would be the
same, they don’t make extra large rooms just for maternity patients so they can bring 7 people, a double buggy and a football with them. It’s pure stupidity and entitlement, the appointment letter or email will have contained a link to their website so that Ella could read the latest rules on having accompaniment at appointments, she chose to ignore that and instead try to pressure the NHS into accepting a total of 8 people into a consulting room designed to accommodate one patient and one support person.

Ella and Tim also seem to have no and of why they are even going to the appointment. They treat it as a day out and a party event for the kids and to make money out of it from YouTube. That is not why the NHS give appointments, they do it to perform medical checks to see if any advice or intervention is needed to keep mother and baby as safe as possible. The ultrasound practitioner is trained to pick up on very hard to spot abnormalities visually and by listening using specialist tools, to do their job effectively, and safely for the patient so nothing important is missed, they need to be able to focus on the patient and the care they are giving. Having a boy with a football that he is rolling around on the floor while trying to do that job would be particularly distracting because the practitioner would have no way of knowing whether Heze, or one of the the other children, are likely to start kicking the ball around the room, especially with the lack of discipline and focus on aesthetics as instead such as hair and fake glasses that is apparent the moment this family enter a room, one kick from a football could cause thousands in equipment damage and cause other people’s appointments to need to be cancelled.

I have only recently started looking at their videos, but so far what really stands out to me is that they are extremely shallow people. All they care about is how their hair and clothes look, that’s basically it. They’ve taken their children out of school from pure laziness of not wanting to get them dressed and to school on time, and not wanting to be without the help at home during the day of their eldest daughter for the youngest children. Their ambitions for their children are also very shallow, yes they may be having some success in football and acting, but they are highly competitive industries, meaning that there is no guarantee that the kids will be able
to make a living as adults in these careers. They have not properly homeschooled, as vlogging, taking care of young babies, football, auditions etc all take priority. The children don’t have the basic foundation needed to later be able to take GCSEs, and for the eldest 2, the time for correcting that is going to start running out sooner than they think. The vlog where they take the entire family into the city centre purely to stand inside and outside a women’s changing room where 1 child is choosing an outfit is a good example of their stupidity. Firstly that is disruptive to the shop and other customers, and inconsiderate to have a grown man and a nearly teenage boy lingering outside a ladies changing area, and also shops are still wanting to prevent closure due to contact tracing or staff infection, so having a group of 8 people shopping together increases risk to their staff and businesses.

But what really annoyed me, aside from their lack of consideration for everyone else around them, was that the event of shopping, travelling to and from the city centre and vlogging probably took up most of their day. How have they got so much time to waste? They have 4 children who are at an age where they should be providing a full time homeschooling programme. They also have young children who are noisy and restless and one who is incapable of being away from a football. Why take them all to the shop to buy one dress for one child? Ella and Hosanna could have shopped in half the time, and in that time Tim could have been at home doing some homeschooling, or have taken the kids to a park for exercise. With a family of 8, it also seems odd to me to dedicate a day out to buying one outfit, surely Ella would shop for her kid’s clothes at regular intervals, taking with her possibly one or two of the older kids so they can have some choices. I could understand one of them taking the eldest 4 into town if they needed their feet measured for new school shoes for example, but why is every little task a family day out?

They are the type of family that cause me to prefer online shopping. Imagine getting stuck behind them in a supermarket, wouldn’t surprise me at all if all 8 of them go together to get basic food shopping.

Also, I’ve yet to see them do ANYTHING that isn’t about theirselves, their own feelings or appearance, or the activities of their own children. There is no paid work happening that benefits anyone exempt themselves, no helping out other relatives, no doing anything to repay that they were given a free house. Also the religion stuff, I do believe that Ella was brought up as a Christian and the family do believe in god, but I don’t think they are practicing any Christianity in their lifestyles, and it’s just something they have noticed gets them subscribers, particularly American ones who are gullible enough to believe that anyone with a large family who calls themselves Christian are automatically wonderful people.

Also very odd the way they keep getting dogs and then getting rid of them, surely that is a waste of money and it’s not clear why they do it. They must have learned the first time that a dog was too much effort for them to care for. I guess they get good vlog views on the puppy video and make plenty of money off it and then can sell it on without too much loss of value after the puppy is only a few weeks older. The kids don’t seem that interested in the dog, and training, watching a puppy grow and taking it for walks all could make easy and popular vlog content, if anyone in the family genuinely had an interest in animals.

I also don’t understand how they have a video intro which clearly shows a goal and football being set up across land which spans into their neighbour’s driveway, they have an enclosed back garden, yet have their son kicking a ball around their neighbour’s driveway and against their outside wall which they will feel inside the house. Its inconsiderate unless the house happens to be empty long term, which is unlikely.
 
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Ottilie

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If a 16 year old should be able to look after themselves, according to Ella. Then Tim at the age of 37 should easily be able to take care of his children whilst his wife is ill without the help of his mother in law everyday!
 
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RosieBella-01

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Absolute selfish, careless, entitled scumbags. I have a lot to say.

Ella, get down off your high horse thinking you are superior to everyone else. Nobody in the UK even knows who you are except the few who have stumbled upon your youtube account. Nobody watches your TV show, it's unheard of over here. Your not famous or a celebrity.

HOW DARE 8 you step foot in a hospital when you all had Covid last week. And how ignorant of you all to bring a camera into a hospital, where sick, ill, vulnerable people may be caught on camera. There may be people attending appointments in private who do not wish their families or others to know about & here you are plastering it all over youtube for the world to see.

Ella you have 6 kids, you KNOW fully well that in UK the rules have always been only one person allowed in to a scan. and you KNOW, during Covid that most hospital don't allow anybody in to the scans or even the birth, not even the father. You KNOW 6 kids would never be allowed in even before covid.

HOW DARE YOU criticize the healthcare system that you get for FREE & threaten to make complaints. You have no regard, respect or appreciation for hospital staff that have worked long, hard hours, isolated from loved ones, exposed themselves to the virus, watched people die, trying to keep everyone safe. The disprespectful behaviour was underhand bullying the staff by waving a camera at them, purposely talking really loud, insulting & criticizing the hospital & throwing a tantrum. Hoping they would be intimidated into letting you have your own way like a spoiled brat because you are convinved your a famous celebrity that deserves special treatment.

I can't believe Ella kept saying "Ive been here before they know I have 6 childre" ELLA you fool, how the hell is a random receptionist going to know that. There are multiple receptionists & admins that work different shifts. They don't even have that information at hand & haven't got access to that information because your health records are private & confidential. Literally all they have access to is name, date of birth and phone number along with your doctors name & appointment time. They know nothing about your medical history or issues. If you were educated or worked a day in your life you would know that. Literally thinking your so famous the whole hospital knows everything about you. Then crying that nobody told her. It's not the hospitals job to click a link for you to find out information. Hence why they send you the damn information link in the email & have a phone number for you to call with queries. Are you too lazy to pick up a phone? By the way, the hospital they went to is fantastic. Amazing staff, always friendly, polite, helpful, consistant & hardworking.

I'm sorry but I really find it inappropriate that the kids, especially pre-teen Heze is all up in his mothers reproductive system, along with them constantly telling them how and when they made the baby & talking to them about tubes being tied. And its not appropriate to keep breastfeeding in front of them without putting a blanket over herself. She literally whips hers breasts out in front of everybody. It's all very weird.

It was disgusting that they allowed Heze into the hospital kicking a filthy ball around. First of all it was rolled along a dirty ground outside and he brings it into a hospital full of vulnerable people. Letting the kids run around screaming & eyeballing staff. RUDE, DISRESPECTFUL, ENTITLED, BRATTY, UNCIVILISED FAMILY.

Saying if they knew they would have got babysitters, well every other day you leave them at home alone or dump them on elderly grandparents when you need to party or visit hotels. You just mad because you didn't get footage for a video & even more mad that your controlling ass didn't get your own way.

Then she had the cheek to say she's disappointed with the viewers. Well piss off then & stop making stupid, fake, attention seeking videos. Those viewers paid for your cheap plastic braids & fake designer handbags & hotel stays. Not once did she acknowledge her bad behaviour or appologise for her treatment of the hospital staff. She is vile
 
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liliUk

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***** OPEN LETTER *****

Dear Tim & Ella. We know you are reading this because you saw our comments & did a video calling us out, trying to justify your behaviour. Please take on board the following.

Ella please stop doing that squeal when u laugh. And Tim, please stop copying her.

Please stop pretending your kids are the most mannerly kids ever. Their not, you allow them to kick a ball everywhere, screech, talk over each other, hit & push eachother. This is not manners. It's rude.

You can't claim to have Christian morals, then allow your daughters to wear crop tops, dance to age inappropriate music & make suggestive adult dance faces & poses and have your sons throwing gang signs. Christians believe men & women are equal, something you do not believe or practice. God says love everybody but you are homophobic against LGBTQ.

Ella STOP saying the kids with the "white texture" hair have nicer/better/easier hair. STOP jumping for joy that Rue & Hosanna are white skinned. It's hurtful & damaging to the kids. I understand you always disliked your skin & hair but work on self love instead of making your kids feel flawed.

Tim, it's insulting & disrespectful to mock black culture and accents. As a fellow white person I am embarrassed you think it's ok or that you have the right to act borderline racist and use black stereotypes just because you are married to a black woman. Its not cool, funny or respectful. Stop trying to speak Patois. You have never even been to Jamaica.

Ella you are a black woman. Tim you are a white man. Both of you need to be proud of your skin and races because your children are both. How must they feel when mum doesn't want to be black & dad doesn't want to be white. How will the kids ever be happy in their skin when their parents aren't.

Ella as a mother, you need to respect & stand up for your daughters instead of having them as maids. Teach them their value & worth that they are capable of achieving goals and dreams. You can't rant about independent women & then have them chained to the kitchen sink. All your teaching them is how to cater to men, run a house & boys are better than girls. Women & black people fought long & hard for rights, freedom and equality and here you are making slaves of the girls. The cleaning, cooking & child rearing is YOUR job not the kids.

The boys need to start helping out. They need to learn to help, tidy & cook. What happens if they live alone or become single fathers. How will they care for themselves, kids & run a home when they don't know how to wash a dish. Heze is 11. He should be able to do his own hair. How dare you make the girls clean up their brothers mess. It's disgusting that you prioritise the boys freedom, time, luxuries, hobbies & activities over the girls.

Tim, you need to start doing chores. You contribute to the mess, so you need to clean it. Your a parent. Cooking and feeding your kids is a necessity not a choice. How can you sit and watch your babies clean up your mess & cook your food. Disgusting, vile, sexist man

Tim, if you can't help out at home, go and get a job. Stop saying youtube is work. You literally record a 15 minute video and upload it with no special effects or transitions. The rest of the time you sit in bed or play computer games. How can you keep saying your bored when the house is dirty. In your bored moment, why not declutter and go to the dump or hire a skip.

Ella, you also need to do more around the house. It's always dirty, messy, cluttered, washing and rubbish everywhere. Why can't you get off your behind and clean it while the kids play outside or make Tim help. Instead you make your kids do it or the elderly grandparents and you have a cleaner. Laziest couple on youtube.

HOW DARE YOU deny your kids an education. The kids are behind academically and socially. You need to get tutors for these kids ASAP. What happens if YOUR dreams of the kids being a famous footballers & celebrities doesn't work out. They have nothing to fall back on & won't get a good jobs because they have zero education or qualifications. Deciding your kids careers at birth, boys will be footballers & girls will be actors & dancers is WRONG.

You need to let you kids socialise and interact with other people and kids their age. They lack social skills and clearly have attachment issues as Harper nearly had a heart attack because Tim & Halle got off at a different train stop. All the kids were in a state over it. That is not normal. They need to make friends. It's also ridiculous that the whole family has to go to every activity or sport. How will these kids have any "me time". They can't even play with friends their own age without the whole family there. How will they cope having to be alone as adults. It's not good for their development.

How dare you spend the money your children earn, buying yourself designer outfits, luxury hotel stays, apple watches, tiffanys jewelry when your kids only wear free clothes from sponsors, Houston only wears Pyjamas or a nappy & the kids recieve poundland toys, toothbrushes & magazines for Christmas. It's exploitation and greed. That money should be divided into trust funds for the kids.

You need to get Hosannas eyes checked. There is clearly a problem that is being neglected. The problem will get worse. If you can find time to get your nails done & go to a party then you can find time to make a doctor appointment.

Ella, You need to stop complaining about being pregnant, stop rolling your eyes & sighing over baby #7. There are women & couples who can't have kids that are dying inside when you say these things. Be thankful you have beautiful healthy children. Stop acting surprised that your pregnant. You had unprotected sex, what did you expect, a tv? Shows how irresponsible you are that you get pregnant when not wanting more kids & waiting to get your tubes tied. Foolishness.

You need to stop relying and depending on elderly grandparents to babysit, pay & provide for you. Your parents should not be buying your food. Tim your parents bought you a house. Be greatful not greedy. Ella, your parents are elderly & have a special needs daughter. How dare you expect them to csre for 7 kids. And have them clean your house, do your laundry & cook for you. HAVE RESPECT. You both should be spoiling the grandparents with a nice thank you gift for all the money & help they have given you . The disrespect is hard to take in.

Tim, your not American. We don't have basketball over here. How the hell have you got every basketball team jersey from the states but you dont even play it or have a hoop at home. I think the only basketball team any British person can name is Lakers & thats because everyone thought Kobe Bryant was hot. It's not even televised over here. We don't even have British basketball teams because nobody plays it here. Maybe the odd school team activity. Stop trying to reel in American viewers because Jesus, we do not need our American friends thinking we all live & behave like you. God forbid.

Please start teaching Houston to stop that shrill, piercing, screeching. She is at the age now she understands correction and basic instruction. But nobody can be bothered to teach her. It's annoying and she shouldn't be on the vlogs if all she does is scream. The viewers don't want to listen to roaring when people are screaming.

Please start allowing the kids to spend more time outside. It cant be good for their health being cooped up in that small, cramped, dusty, cluttered house. Why do you never open windows & doors even when the sun is shining? Why are you all sitting on the floor inside on warm days. Why have you not got some outdoor seating or garden toys. Those kids are homeschooled and indoors 24-7. You make lots of youtube money, so why not bring the kids on eductational day trips and outings.

You need to move house, build an extension or else re-arrange the home as the living conditions are shocking. Its disgraceful that pre-teens are sharing bedrooms with babies & toddlers.

You really need to re-evuate your lifestyle and make better choices for your children.

YOURS SINCERELY
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liliUk

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ATRO ***** OPEN LETTER *****

Dear Tim & Ella. We know you are reading this because you saw our comments & did a video calling us out, trying to justify your awful behaviour. Please take on board the following.

Ella please stop doing that fake squeal when u laugh. And Tim, please stop copying her.

Please stop pretending your kids are the most mannerly kids ever. Their not, you allow them to kick a ball everywhere, screech, talk over each other, hit & push eachother. This is not manners. It's rude.

Tim & Ella, have some manners & respect & STOP allowing Heze to bring that football everywhere. It's disgraceful. He is going to do damage or cause an accident & hurt somebody. How can you preach about well behaved kids when you allow Heze to run around with a ball in stores, streets, malls, trains, buses, cinemas, auditions, horseriding, themeparks, in the house and constantly kicking the ball outside the house against the walls. Have respect for your next door neighbours. I get he likes football but Its coming across as weird for his age that he can't let go of the ball. He either holds it or keeps his foot on it. You dont see kids that like art bringing paintbrushes everywhere.

Everytime you go shopping or anywhere you bring the whole family and let them run around the place screaming loudly, taking up aisles with 6 kids and a pram, touching everything, Filming and annoying the public. The way you allowed the girls to behave in the dressing rooms in the mall was shocking. They were screaming at the top of their lungs & running around clearly annoying shoppers. Very rude that you filmed there with women trying to use changing rooms & Tim & Heze clearly standing in the doorway.

You can't claim to have Christian morals, then allow your daughters to wear crop tops, dance to age inappropriate music & make suggestive adult dance faces & poses and have your sons throwing gang signs. The lyrics of the songs you let your kids dance to is sickening. Christians believe men & women are equal, something you do not believe or practice. God says love everybody but you are homophobic against LGBTQ.

Ella STOP saying the kids with the "white texture" hair have nicer/better/easier hair. STOP jumping for joy that Rue & Hosanna are white skinned. It's hurtful & damaging to the kids. I understand you always disliked your skin & hair but work on self love instead of making your kids feel flawed.

Tim, it's insulting & disrespectful to mock black culture and accents. As a fellow white person I am embarrassed you think it's ok or that you have the right to act borderline racist and use black stereotypes just because you are married to a black woman. Its not cool, funny or respectful. Stop trying to speak Patois. You have never even been to Jamaica. Of all the wonderful things you could teach the kids about their heritage. You chose Jamaican slang.

Ella you are a black woman. Tim you are a white man. Both of you need to be proud of your skin and races because your children are both. How must they feel when mum doesn't want to be black & dad doesn't want to be white. How will the kids ever be happy in their skin when their parents aren't.

Ella as a mother, you need to respect & stand up for your daughters instead of having them as maids. Teach them their value & worth that they are capable of achieving goals and dreams. You can't rant about independent women & then have them chained to the kitchen sink. All your teaching them is how to cater to men, run a house & boys are better than girls. Women & black people fought long & hard for rights, freedom and equality and here you are making slaves of the girls. The cleaning, cooking & child rearing is YOUR job not the kids.

The boys need to start helping out. They need to learn to help, tidy & cook. What happens if they live alone or become single fathers. How will they care for themselves, kids & run a home when they don't know how to wash a dish. Heze is 11. He should be able to do his own hair. How dare you make the girls clean up their brothers mess. It's disgusting that you prioritise the boys freedom, time, luxuries, hobbies & activities over the girls.

Tim, you need to start doing chores. You contribute to the mess, so you need to clean it. Your a parent. Cooking and feeding your kids is a necessity not a choice. How can you sit and watch your babies clean up your mess & cook your food. Disgusting, vile, sexist man

Tim, if you can't help out at home, go and get a job. Stop saying youtube is work. You literally record a 15 minute video and upload it with no special effects or transitions. The rest of the time you lay in bed or play computer games. How can you keep saying your bored when the house is dirty. In your bored moment, why not declutter and go to the dump or hire a skip. Ella, we appreciate you trying to defend Tim but you are both lazy.

Ella, you also need to do more around the house. It's always dirty, messy, cluttered, laundry and rubbish everywhere. Why can't you get off your behind and clean it while the kids play outside or make Tim help. Instead you make your kids do it or the elderly grandparents and you have a cleaner. Laziest couple on youtube. You never leave the house so it's not like your busy. Your don't do homeschooling much, everybody helps you, most meals are fruit or chicken left to boil in a pot. So you have plenty of time to clean. If you can't manage, make a cleaning rota & stop adding more kids to the equation.

HOW DARE YOU deny your kids an education. The kids are behind academically and socially. You need to get tutors for these kids ASAP. What happens if YOUR dreams of the kids being a famous footballers & celebrities doesn't work out. They have nothing to fall back on & won't get a good jobs because they have zero education or qualifications. Deciding your kids careers at birth, boys will be footballers & girls will be actors & dancers is WRONG. Hosanna struggles with basic reading but you get a tutor for Heze, because he's a boy. If your kid is struggling, then stop going to parties and help them. The kids are never seen doing schoolwork in the background, their either cleaning, babysitting, kicking a ball or making tiktok dances. It is terrible that you have ALL the kids learning the same things. For christ sake why are 11 year old Heze and 3 year old Reu being taught the same thing. And so unfair that the kids try to learn with Houston screaming at them

The kids are homeschooled, well they don't do much learning but none of you work. Perfect opportunity to have educational trips to help them learn. The kids never go anywhere. They are always at home taking care of the parents responsibilities. You make money but still never treat the kids to a day out unless your gifted one by a sponsor like Legoland or a youtube event. So many free, educational, fun, interesting things to in London where you live. There are parks, rivers, zoo's, galleries, museums, sporting arenas, themed attractions, theme parks, sights, monuments, steet performers, bowling, arcades, theatres, activity centres. You live an hour away from the beach and amazing lakes & scenic areas.

You need to let you kids socialise and interact with other people and kids their age. They lack social skills and clearly have attachment issues as Harper nearly had a heart attack because Tim & Halle got off at a different train stop. All the kids were in a state over it. That is not normal. Clearly seperation & attachment issues. They need to make friends. It's also ridiculous that the whole family has to go to every activity or sport. How will these kids have any "me time" or develop socially. They can't even play with friends their own age without the whole family there. How will they cope having to be alone as adults. It's not good for their development. Heze should not be spending his days with toddlers, babies & little girls. He needs to interract with boys his age. How are these kids going to cope as adults. They won't have a clue about the real world.

The kids are coming across so fake & robotic. It's like their brainwashed & just say rehearsed, mature things that they know the parents they want to hear. We never hear the kids laugh naturally. Its like a cult. It's a pity because they are nice kids but the fakeness is too much. Hosanna is becoming unbearable & fake. Whoever is speaking on camera she has to follow them around & start hugging & rubbing them just to be seen. Hosanna & Heze really need to stop with the goody two shoes act. Hosanna is sneaky & nosy, she watches & listens to everything. Hezes mask fell when he wouldn't show good sportsmanship by sulking when his little sisters won a game. It wasn't nice to see his jealousy. Hes too old act like that

How dare you spend the money your children earn, buying yourself designer outfits, luxury hotel stays, apple watches, tiffanys jewelry when your kids only wear free clothes from sponsors, Houston only wears Pyjamas or a nappy & the kids recieve poundland toys, toothbrushes & magazines for Christmas. It's exploitation and greed. That money should be divided into trust funds for the kids.

You need to get Hosannas eyes checked. There is clearly a problem that is being neglected. The problem will get worse. If you can find time to get your nails done & go to a party then you can find time to make a doctor appointment.

Ella, You need to stop complaining about being pregnant, stop rolling your eyes & sighing over baby #7. There are women & couples who can't have kids that are dying inside when you say these things. Be thankful you have beautiful healthy children. Stop acting surprised that your pregnant. You had unprotected sex, what did you expect, a tv? Shows how irresponsible you are that you get pregnant when not wanting more kids & waiting to get your tubes tied. Foolishness. Then saying your supposed to ask people for help. NO ELLA, when you can't manage your kids, then its NOT other peoples responsibility. It's YOUR responsibility to stop bringing children into the world when you can't manage and have no room for them. You don't just expect others to help. So rude to expect people to look 6 or 7 kids.

You need to stop relying and depending on elderly grandparents to babysit, pay & provide for you. Your parents should not be buying your food. Tim your parents bought you a house. Be greatful not greedy. Ella, your parents are elderly & have a special needs daughter. How dare you expect them to care for 7 kids. And have them clean your house, do your laundry, ironing & cook for you. HAVE RESPECT. You both should be spoiling the grandparents with a nice thank you gift for all the money & help they have given you . The disrespect is hard to take in.

Tim, your not American. We don't have a large basketball following in UK. It is practically non-existent. How the hell have you got every basketball team jersey from the states but you dont even play it or have a hoop at home. I think the only basketball team any British person can name is Lakers & thats because everyone thought Kobe Bryant was hot. It's not even televised over here. We don't even have any known British basketball teams because nobody plays it here. Maybe the odd school team activity. Stop trying to reel in American viewers because Jesus, we do not need our American friends thinking we all live & behave like you. God forbid.

Please start teaching Houston to stop that shrill, piercing, screeching. She is at the age now she understands correction and basic instruction. But nobody can be bothered to teach her. It's annoying and she shouldn't be on the vlogs if all she does is scream. The viewers don't want to listen to roaring when people are speaking.

Please start allowing the kids to spend more time outside. It cant be good for their health being cooped up in that small, cramped, dusty, cluttered house. Why do you never open windows & doors even when the sun is shining? Why are you all sitting on the floor inside on warm days. Why have you not got some outdoor seating or garden toys. Those kids are homeschooled and indoors 24-7. You make lots of youtube money, so why not bring the kids on eductational day trips and outings.

You need to move house, build an extension or else re-arrange the home as the living conditions are shocking. Its disgraceful that pre-teens are sharing bedrooms with babies & toddlers. Halle & Harper share bed!!!

Tim & Ella, your not relatable or these amazing parents. British people have no idea what planet your living on. American viewers are seeing through the bull too. You really need to re-evuate your lifestyle and make better choices for your children. The only reason people think these things is because you keep putting your private lives on the Internet and telling us this information. Stop preaching when you havent even got own morals in check

YOURS SINCERELY
The whole world

Thats just an updated version for anyone who wants to comment their videos
 
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Sprezza

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I also feel like people love being in control and they enjoy seeing young people being all obedient and respectful not realising that it comes across as a controlling behaviour rather than letting these kids be free spirited. It seems like people are drawn to what looks proper and agree to their bullshit because of how those poor kids always agree and listen to their parents. This is the only reason people follow them, it shows how most people are not woke and are totally blinded.


I give up 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 i really can’t stop laughing now but this is the book! This is it! 😂
Heze gets on my nerves how he's always trying to sound wise and preachy just mimicking what his parents want to hear. It's like a cult. You can tell as well that he feels superior and more valued than his sisters.
 
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OMG can you imagine their parenting book

Chapter 1 - How to get pregnant when waiting to have your tubes tied
Chapter 2 - How to name a baby something beginning with H
Chapter 3 - How to fake morning sickness for 9 months
Chapter 4 - How to preach life experiences when you never leave the house
Chapter 5 - How to pretend to homeschool
Chapter 6 - How to destroy hair
Chapter 7 - How to live in a filthy house
Chapter 8 - How to be lazy
Chapter 9 - How to break pandemic rules
Chapter 10 - How to let your kids act like wild animals in public
Chapter 11 - How to brainwash your kids
Chapter 12 - How to value sons more than daughters
Chapter 13 - How to Glue your foot to a ball
Chapter 14 - How to squeeze as many people possible into an enclosed space
Chapter 15 - How to dance like a ho
Chapter 16 - How to ask viewers for money & gifts
Chapter 17 - How to squeal like a pig
Chapter 18 - How to have a tantrum in a hospital
Chapter 19 - How to avoid getting a job
Chapter 20 - How to make slaves out of your daughters
 
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liliUk

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Yes, Hosanna said in one of the videos that Houston kept waking at night for a feed and that she didn't mind getting up to give her a bottle. I thought in Uk there had to be check ups on homeschooling every so often and they have to reach certain standards. But all the kids seem behind academically. But the parents don't care because they are moulding the kids for fame so education isn't important to them

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1. UK mixed race family, White Dad, Black mum, 6 kids with #7 on the way, preaches Christian values that believe in traditional gender roles.

2. Kids are homeschooled by the parents. Kids are behind academically. But they don't spend much time doing schoolwork or teaching. Only when there is a video about homeschooling. Neither of the parents are bright but a few of the kids are intelligent and could benefit from school or a tutor. The kids are socially awkward from lack of interaction with the outside world and the whole family accompanies each other everywhere.

3. The parents are eager for all of the kids to have famous careers. They want the boys to be professional footballers, and the girls to be in tv/acting/singing/dancing. If the girls dont pursue these careers they want them to be housewives. The parents famous careers never happened. The Dad was a wannabe christian rapper by the name E-Tizz and the mum was his back up singer.

4. The girls do all the housework, cleaning, minding smaller kids, night feeds ect. The boys dont lift a finger. Its against their beliefs for the boys to cook or clean. They also have a cleaner once a week

5. The Dad Tim is very lazy, in bed at the beginning of a lot of videos. He doesn't cook or clean and leaves those things to his daughters, Ella his wife, and they rely on help from both sets of Grandparents as Tim plays computer games all day

6. They live in a cramped 3 bed house with hardly any room. The house is full of clutter and mess. They did a spring clean video and literally threw away crayons. They have a conservatory and use it for tiktok dances rather than something useful

7. Boasts about having well behaved, polite, mannerly kids but allows the toddler to screach & scream, allows the kids to run around shops & streets screaming & allows the eldest to bring a football everywhere including shops, church, cinema, horseriding, shopping malls, grocery shopping, car trips, train rides, work offers ect. He constantly kick the ball around a shared drive way nesr the neighbours door & window and they rately use their garden

8. The mum Ella is of Jamaican heritage. She has never been there and acts very British. But the white Dad Tim, likes to speak in a Jamaican accent and slang.

9. Ella says she never ever experienced racism in UK as a black woman. But Tim said hes experienced racism as a white man. So made his kids watch Harry & Meghans interview and then watch 12 years a slave to tell the kids about how racist white people were.

10. They found out they were pregnant with no.7. Then say they found out the day before tying her tubes. Also told their youtube subscribers before their family.

11. Gift the kids poundshop gifts, magazines & toothbrushes for kids at xmas, and some shared toys. But the parents buy lavish hotels stays, apple watches and Tiffany jewelly for each other.

12. The Dad, is trying to cater to his American subscribers by wearing basketball jerseys and hats of american teams. When we all know basketball is not big UK

13. Children have become robotic & fake
They act like angels for the camera, especially Hosanna the oldest girl. She is extremely attention seeking and craves the camera. They seem to favour boys and the girl they think is prettiest & may have a famous career Halle, as she gets all the work offers.

14. They overshare with the small ones about babymaking, relationship advice, lovemaking, cancer scares, breastfeeding ect. Its very inappropriate and uncomfortable
 
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I can't believe the title of their video was: DESPITE YOUTUBE AND FAME WE'RE JUST A NORMAL FAMILY

Talk about up themselves, they really think their something special don't they? Do they seriously think they are famous? Compared to other You tubers they are literally nothing.

They are always preaching about respect so why don't they start by teaching their son to have some respect and stop kicking a football around shops? Why don't they teach their daughters to respect themselves and stop dancing to explicit songs and posting it on the internet.

She talks about appreciating the way God made her yet she continuously dyes her hair, smears herself in makeup, has fake eyelashes and fake nails... I am not saying there is anything wrong with that but she literally contradicts herself. If she was truly happy with the way she was made she wouldn't be so 'Fake'.

There whole life evolves around her sons football! What about the girls are they not as important and special? It's like she worships the ground he walks on and panders to his every need yet the girls are treated so differently. I really hope that he doesn't turn into a copy of his father who literally does nothing and the girls all and up following in her footsteps and become like her waiting hand and foot on their future partners and sons.
 
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liliUk

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That is absolutely disgusting, I’m really surprised that Tim didn’t edited that out, as that doesn’t show “supermum” Ella in a good light!


I think that they should give up their bedroom so that all their children have their own space. As an adult do you really need a bedroom, when your children are sleeping on top of each other.. NO! “Dim & is Elladerberry” (whoever came up with this name for them is a genius🤣) could surely get a sofa bed that could go either in the front room or conservatory. You gotta work with the space that you have.


Spot on! I always thought that their isn’t any REAL chemistry between them. I think Elladerberry is more into Dim, than Dim is into Elladerberry!!!🤣 sorry but these names for them are hilarious, can we all refer to them with their new names please!!
I couldn't help myself but to rename her Elladerberry... thinking she cured the world of covid with elderberries. What a donkey....


Yea Tim can keep his Grimwade swag.... i for sure don't want any....

And what's with the "ya heard meee"..... No Tim, we didn't hear you BECAUSE Houston is screeching & screaming at the top of her lungs like a strangled cat every 2 seconds & nobody is teaching her to stop.

WARNING to all viewers, do not use headphones while Houston is around as you will be left with a burst eardrum & tinnitus.

NAME SUGGESTIONS FOR BABY GRIMWADE #7. My guesses are:

▪︎Holy
▪︎Heaven
▪︎Halo
▪︎Harmony
▪︎Headache
▪︎Homeschool
▪︎Hairstyle
▪︎Heartburn
▪︎Happy Birthday to ya
▪︎Hospital
▪︎Housekeeper
▪︎Hearddd Meeee
▪︎HipHop
▪︎HardWork
▪︎Hoodrat
▪︎Hotel Getaway
▪︎Hiiiii Guys
▪︎Huzakiah/Hizariah/Hakaliyah/Hozamiya (Something mental to match Hezekiah & Hazariah)
 
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Willow24

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I used to like watching this family but have totally gone off of them for thousands of reasons - kids are puppets. Who gets their kids to sit and watch a 2 hour Harry and Megan interview WTF let the kids be kids. And Tim talking and acting like hes some sort of gangster rapper just makes me feel 🤢. Theyve changed for the worse this family and are sooooooo Boring. Kids have no interaction with other kids especially the girls. They maybe polite and well spoken but the kids fight for attention and it feels like they are quite controlled. What parent pretends their baby has gone missing leaving the older daughter in histerics just for you tube views (video quickly got removed). Something just NOT right with this family so much so its worrying especially for the kids. Why is always the kids who really suffer on You tube....
 
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