Hm, so now you are analysing somebody ananymous from a distance just from some sentences posted on a gossip thread? A shame that I spent so much for therapy
![Beaming face with smiling eyes :grin: 😁](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/gh/joypixels/emoji-assets@5.0/png/64/1f601.png)
Actually I am myself more of a controlling type, ...but I was also long enough victim myself. I overcame it when I realised that I had a huge part in it myself.
Don't understand though what you mean with people cheating because they do not love each other? People cheat because they choose to do it for whatever reason. Usually they believe they have some kind of benefit - even if only short term.
Anyway I don't believe in love (other than to a child), working in research in genetics, developmental biology, I tend to believe it's all hormonal. (funny thing: spent my postdoc at NIMH, Bethesda MD researching hormonal status in bipolar/borderline patients...) being in research you very likely end up being abusive yourself, since "publish or perish"... So don't need any education here...
Maybe that is why I enjoy Chateau diaries because it is completely the opposite I normally have to deal with. Not so much ratio...