The Chateau Diaries #127 #AUkrainianRefugeeIsn'tJustForEaster

[Lady Avonlea]

Here were a few of the more notable messages on Fanny's tea-making video. It appears Fanny's YT manager has told her not to delete messages so that must be killing her. Any chance MP could be Michael Petherick (aka Teabag)??? We can only hope Stephanie Jarvis takes MP's suggestion regarding Snorty on board.

Trinette Marriott
3 hours ago
Great short video. lots of negative talk on line atm. keep on making videos and being you. Lots of support for you all from me, almost from your first vlog!
Big D
9 hours ago
Stephanie don’t listen to the 1/2% of haters! The rest of us loved it and support all you do.

M P
9 hours ago
Hello Stephanie My Favorite Vlogger in the entire world. (I'll do a $100 super chat soon for this so you won't hate me. lol) Please don't hate me for making a comment / suggestion but myself and other Patrons and Subscribers are missing the two weekly "day to day Chateau Dairies". You know....how the channel was once originated. Maybe you can do away with your Sunday Chateau "Culture" Dairies" and put those "Culture" Vlogs out on a new occasional Channel with Oliver from time to time and just go back doing "the Stephanie day to day vlogs" twice a week. You could also do 15 minute weekly Patron video every other week or do them live so no editing. Maybe have your Administrative and Personal assistants do your non profit channel themselves every other week to cut back on all your work? Last weeks one 24 minute Day to Day video was not enough to cover your entire week. Also........again, please don't hate me. We all LOVE Phillip but it appears your vlogs are moving from daily life of a single independent women in France to a couples Channel. Coun't how many times you say the word Phillip in each Vlog. lol (PS..I am really happy you are in love) We have more than enough couples channels of the English living in France doing DIY Chateaus. I / we miss the twice of week daily life of Stephanie, her family and cast of come and go characters. Thanks for taking this comment as constructive feedback. Be safe and well Ms. Stephanie Jarvis.

 

[Hemerocallis]

Stephanie Jarvis, the partial owner of Chateau de Lalande, swindler of Patreon and master manipulator behind the Chateau Unwrapped YouTube channel and enabler of tear worthy bullying towards Selmar and Tatyana, perpetrated by Natalia Oliveto,
It's all very amusing to me that although you extended an invite to HMN from last year's chateau tour jollies, only one other chateau owner paid you a visit. It speaks volumes as to your character.

Please excuse my bean-counting but two:
Vivienne from Chateau Love with daughter Isabelle (clearly to promote her channel) and
Amaury from Castle Ten Berghe
Has anyone an idea why the Belgian Amaury visited CL in the autumn ? I looked on their channel.......nothing.........on CD...... very short sequence...

 

[Princess and the Pea]

While Stephanie is sleeping comments don't get moderated!! She stopped liking comments 5 hours ago ...


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Kyle Broyles
1 hour ago
I was so sad to see Selmar’s video about his treatment by Natalia. After all he had done to help, it was disappointing to see him go on such a down note. I hope there will be a reconciliation between everyone.


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Brenda Graw
1 hour ago
What happened?. I have missed Selmer.



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SEU
2 hours ago
This is silly. This is making rocket science out of something which is very basic.



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Jane Gendreau
2 hours ago
Are you kidding me??!! We're discussing ad nauseum the proper way to make British tea?! And, am I to understand that Dan is meant to spend his time manning the camera (away from his family) for the chatelain, because there is no one else in the chateau to assist in this monumentally important task??!! I see a very troubling pattern here!! Needed more at the chateau than at home?! Who in their right mind would tolerate this nonsense?! Not Annalise, I would hazard to guess!! This makes me sick!! I am deeply saddened by this disgusting trend!! I guess the empire marches on at all cost!!! USA


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A T
2 hours ago
It is not The British way it is a commoner's way of making tea!


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Virginia Goodale
3 hours ago
As a Certified Tea Sommelier, my heart is sad when I see tea in a bag and not only that, but squashed with a spoon.


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Faye Ryan
4 hours ago
NO! sacrilege! you squished the tea bag- no! it makes the tea bitter! (a 1000+ cup of tea drinker a year here)


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Speed Racer
4 hours ago
How to use a British loo. Let's go!

I just imagine her up in bed on that new patron purchased laptop with steam coming out of her ears swigging whiskey out of the bottle..Delete, delete, delete...!! Like a mad game of Whack A Mole - Whilst trying to keep up with the fast moving Tattle threads, desperate to come up with something, anything to quickly get filmed with her in house production team (Dan) to divert attention away from Selmargate. The tea making video is her literally knowing that she could put up a 'here is a wall with paint drying' & her super fans would swoon. She's so busy with Tattle, deleting comments, watching Kathy's vlogs, checking that Mummy has definitely got Selmar back on side blah blah that her content is suffering quite clearly.
Meanwhile back on topic. Stephanie Jarvis - where are the accounts?

 

[CountessPompidoo]

Omg! You can't work out how to pour boiling water over a tea bag? I'm a Brit. Don't drink tea other than herbal - peppermint, chamomile, fennel, lemon and ginger. I much prefer coffee, black no sugar. If you could see me now you would laugh your head off. I'm trying to perfect vintage curls. I've tried foam rollers, pillow rollers, pin curls. Tonight I'm trying flexi rods. I've got a headscarf over the top and I look like professor Quirrel from Harry Potter! I'll make up for it tomorrow by putting on my seamed stockings!

Morning Miss Anna

 

[Geordieboy71]

Mrs Geordie has just watched the tea making vlog and believes that this is a personal instructional video for and "new volunteers" (read into that anything else you wish) in how to make HER tea.

 

[MojoDublin]

Whatever happened to creative freedom for the artist?

Please remember-Dyslexic as well !!!

Miss Anna went in as SHE made tea first _RE:: in her vlog was out earlier


lastly
- to point out -
-tattle can do filming
-editing
and post production 1 hour .
Unlike the charlatan that needs 70 hours for 4 x 30 mins

 

[MRShavershamsdress]

Well I probably deserved to be blocked I told her what she was doing (gift grab) made her look like a spoilt brat!

Soooo, the truth make you deserving of a block? It really does make her look like a Veruca Salt and blocking seems very much like something a spoilt brat would do. Afterall, it’s akin to a “taking my toys and going home” tantrum.

 

[Welsh-chatelaine]

A few people made comments on the various Selmar videos about the blaming of the Accountant for the lack of accounts. This I find interesting as Stephaneee is publicly ruining their professional reputation as we know she has had the accounts for some time . She could be in deep trouble if the Accountant finds out she is not only lying but causing them potential loss of business reputation (at the very least). . I wonder if this is why she has now decided to ‘do’ the accounts herself - a completely inane decision or one forced upon her by the Accountant actually finding out and black listing her. If I were her accountant I would be suing for slander, after all she is now worth pursuing as she has available income and that is true for all who may have a grievance against her. Also Selmar could sue for Health and Safety issues including moving those slabs, use of a chainsaw etc etc. Dan should have the correct certificates for use/training for use of power tools, digger, cherry picker etc etc. Her equipment, her responsibility.
Selmar I believe was a paid employee at one point by Stephaneee and as such should have had all the training, risk assessments.
Here, every member of relevant outdoor staff has to go on training days for use of any power tools, each power tool requires a different training day, this also includes the correct way to climb a ladder ( I kid you not).
There is no way she will be able to do the accounts herself by the way , believe me.
Hope you are reading this Stephanie Jarvis.

 

[graciemckitten]

Just looked at the comments under the latest Chateau Unwrapped video. Here is the comment by Delores Dubois.

Delores Dubois 6 hrs ago

Î wish you would just have a Go Fund Me drive for Ukraine and be done with it. As a long time fan of your program and admirer of your work, I have reached the point where I now begin feel ill at the never-ending amassing of "stuff". How many replica rodents, scented candles, bath and skin products need to be sniffed by everyone before joining all the other products? Give them to a shelter, a nursing home, a hospital! How many sets of dishes, glassware, cutlery, aprons, tablecloths, etc. do you need? How many Christmas trees (10?) must you decorate each year, holidays compulsively celebrated along with everyone's birthday? Why not have one party per month and be done with it!? I respect all the "real" work that goes into the renewal of house and land, but there is now about your program an almost hysterical compulsion for parties, celebratory meals, and "things". I feel you have lost your compass and your energies have been wrongly diverted to something jnadmirable. Please, stop this escalating and embarrassing-to-watch glut of unsolicited things and focus on the restoration work. I'm sorry, I can no longer watch all this ooh-ing and aah-ing and the accommodations built, bought, made to put it all in.

 

[Clara Burnett]

Stephanie Jarvis, the partial owner of Chateau de Lalande, swindler of Patreon and master manipulator behind the Chateau Unwrapped YouTube channel and enabler of tear worthy bullying towards Selmar and Tatyana, perpetrated by Natalia Oliveto, must sit up in bed and wonder why it's currently only her cast of characters to be on the receiving end of our criticism? With Metherdick out the picture hopefully recovering positively from drug addiction... there aren't many people left worthy of scrutiny with most chateau-verse personalities doing it by the book and without Patreons. SJ is really so self absorbed as to believe she is a victim of bullying... I have news for you, it's you who is the perpetrator of bullying. You need not look too far; Frank and Ivo, Selmar, Tatyana, FRK, Tomaz, etc... In comparison to the Fleuries, who are really the only ones operating on a similar level to CD, they are streets ahead with the renovation progress, and most importantly honest too. It's all very amusing to me that although you extended an invite to HMN from last year's chateau tour jollies, only one other chateau owner paid you a visit. It speaks volumes as to your character.


In truth, you are deeply affected by the Tartlet's darkness, because you scramble at any available opportunity to absolve yourself in the following video with references to our points. Don't play a victim, own your bad behaviour and be a decent human being. However, you are incapable, the money means far too much to you to see you change. On occasion, there are voices of bigotry here, most of which are called out for being so, but the posts here are generally of a critical tone and reflect your own injustice. Her response below, is one advocating for censorship in an attempt to control her narrative.


KiKiGee
VIP Member
Friday at 6:40 PM


The Chateau Diaries
15 minutes ago
Yes, it's sad that we live in times where the dark side of vlogging is horrific online abuse. The laws in most countries are starting to move in the direction of banning it, but the process is slow. If you google the name of the site you saw (I won't give them any publicity here) you'll see that there are several articles discussing the atrocious bullying going on there. It has been described as 'the most toxic place on the internet' and 'the most hate-filled corner of the web'. It's important never to engage, even though the sense of injustice is overwhelming. I'll continue to focus on goodness and beauty in life, rather than letting myself be affected by their darkness. Thank you so much for being so caring x



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Spot on. When looking at her statement, make sure to note the genius behind the mirroring: we call her out for bullying, she she twists it around and makes us the bullies, we describe her lifestyle of love, life and laughter as toxic positivity, we become the most toxic part of the internet, we inform her that the law will catch up on her and her fraudulent accounting, she claims we will soon be banned by law. I say genius because she has certainly perfected that mirroring skill, but it's actually not that hard at all. You just take a few keywords from your opponent's speech and use them to argue the complete opposite. Results? Confusion and outrage: how can anybody be so mean/dumb/evil/ignorant.... It darkens all conversation quickly and reason and sense of fairness are lost in the middle. It's a technique she tries to teach her flying monkeys too, but they are not that invested and easier to bypass.

 

[Gibbson]

Yes I found that one too. Much better than Jarvis' version, younger, prettier, more informed, better staged.

I didn't watch, but as a bit of a tea fan- I did watch a documentary once with Stephen Fry as the presenter, which was all about tea.
It would have been more interesting to see tea across Europe or across the UK. There are differences in the way many enjoy their tea or leaves of the differing herbal types of tea which is technically an infusion.
On another note, the worst cup of tea I had was in France.
Peach tea which they had added the French UHT milk to.

 

[graciemckitten]

Spot on. When looking at her statement, make sure to note the genius behind the mirroring: we call her out for bullying, she she twists it around and makes us the bullies, we describe her lifestyle of love, life and laughter as toxic positivity, we become the most toxic part of the internet, we inform her that the law will catch up on her and her fraudulent accounting, she claims we will soon be banned by law. I say genius because she has certainly perfected that mirroring skill, but it's actually not that hard at all. You just take a few keywords from your opponent's speech and use them to argue the complete opposite. Results? Confusion and outrage: how can anybody be so mean/dumb/evil/ignorant.... It darkens all conversation quickly and reason and sense of fairness are lost in the middle. It's a technique she tries to teach her flying monkeys too, but they are not that invested and easier to bypass.

Narcs and emotionally immature adults almost always accuse others of what they are actually doing. It muddies the waters and creates confusion, as you have rightly noted. It is part of Stepfanfraudies “don’t look at me, look at them” strategy. Control by chaos and confusion, a Fanny trademark move.

 

[CountessPompidoo]

@Jules100 good point re chamber pots. Here’s my new score (with advance Apols to delicate Tattlers),

 

[Clara Burnett]

This is BS - she has a setting in place to bar links post in her comments. On Kathy's video I Nicola Yule posted a link to Selmar's video without issue - yet more censorship. Prompting the age old question; What is she trying to hide?

She is not so much trying to hide stuff (let's face it, most of her really dirty laundry is already out there somewhere on the internet, quite literal recently, easy to access for all who wants to) but keeping her brand from being smeared by the truth. She probably knows she can't keep the tit from hitting the fan, so she tries to keep her sycophant fans away from the source. When one is poisoned by her positivity, one doesn't care about the truth out there, one wants more of the same distortion. This is the stuff Cynthia Lambert, Caroline Gooder, Brenda Gibbons and their many fellow sufferers drank and got addicted to, making them blind for their own foul behavior, because they are so focussed on their target: getting as close as possible to the Queen of Toxic Possitivity.

 

[Princess and the Pea]

Mrs Geordie has just watched the tea making vlog and believes that this is a personal instructional video for and "new volunteers" (read into that anything else you wish) in how to make HER tea.

Soon to be followed by Stephanie's tutorials :

How to make a meal for 10 people with leftover pasta, sprouts & dead mouse
How to darn moth holes in cashmere
How to do a Chatelaine's hair and makeup
How to get unsightly stains out of anything & everything

Dan will give lessons in :
How to react when a camera is in your face 24/7
How to film him & make him look good
How to look after 2 small boys
How to set up a tripod for his 2 camera shoot projects

Nati will give a tutorial using her new discovery 'Powerpoint'
How to open a parcel
How to react when opening a parcel with a knitted squirrel hat sent to you from Majorie in Wisconsin
How to not have any form of contact with Amaury
How to source expensive items on Amazon
How to do Stefanny's handwriting

Philip (if he returns)
How to shop with other people's money in Emmaus
How to colour in his hairline
How to go to the toilet without leaving pee pee on the floor
How to surpress a snort without losing conciousness

 

[Albee]

A few people made comments on the various Selmar videos about the blaming of the Accountant for the lack of accounts. This I find interesting as Stephaneee is publicly ruining their professional reputation as we know she has had the accounts for some time . She could be in deep trouble if the Accountant finds out she is not only lying but causing them potential loss of business reputation (at the very least). . I wonder if this is why she has now decided to ‘do’ the accounts herself - a completely inane decision or one forced upon her by the Accountant actually finding out and black listing her. If I were her accountant I would be suing for slander, after all she is now worth pursuing as she has available income and that is true for all who may have a grievance against her. Also Selmar could sue for Health and Safety issues including moving those slabs, use of a chainsaw etc etc. Dan should have the correct certificates for use/training for use of power tools, digger, cherry picker etc etc. Her equipment, her responsibility.
Selmar I believe was a paid employee at one point by Stephaneee and as such should have had all the training, risk assessments.
Here, every member of relevant outdoor staff has to go on training days for use of any power tools, each power tool requires a different training day, this also includes the correct way to climb a ladder ( I kid you not).
There is no way she will be able to do the accounts herself by the way , believe me.
Hope you are reading this Stephanie Jarvis.

I said this a few threads back that her accountants need to be made aware of what she is saying. A little email to each in the area to let them know that if they did her books this is what is being said. How incompetent she is making them sound. A fellow tattler has created a list of firms in the area. I hope someone with good French contacted them. Even a note to the Marie/ mayor to let him know how she is slandering all the good accountants in that area by not divulging her accounts. Now we all assume any one of those accounting firms are the bad ones.

 

[Trollda]

This is BS - she has a setting in place to bar links post in her comments. On Kathy's video I Nicola Yule posted a link to Selmar's video without issue - yet more censorship. Prompting the age old question; What is she trying to hide?

I wouldn't be surprised if all these cowardly acts get blamed on the new YouTube Manager.

 

[Gibbson]

Morning @Gibson, sorry I’m #teammilkfirst

Nooooooooooooooooooooo

 

[Clara Burnett]

I just imagine her up in bed on that new patron purchased laptop with steam coming out of her ears swigging whiskey out of the bottle..Delete, delete, delete...!! Like a mad game of Whack A Mole - Whilst trying to keep up with the fast moving Tattle threads, desperate to come up with something, anything to quickly get filmed with her in house production team (Dan) to divert attention away from Selmargate. The tea making video is her literally knowing that she could put up a 'here is a wall with paint drying' & her super fans would swoon. She's so busy with Tattle, deleting comments, watching Kathy's vlogs, checking that Mummy has definitely got Selmar back on side blah blah that her content is suffering quite clearly.
Meanwhile back on topic. Stephanie Jarvis - where are the accounts?

It was reported to me that when she came down for a snack yesterday she sighed saying she longed back to the time that ignoring Tattle was second nature because there was never going to come much harm from it. Apparently she's not so sure anymore, although still cheerful and convinced that these storms will blow over too. I think the biggest change is that she now realize that even when they do blow over, there's always a new one waiting to take over. For someone who is forced to plan ahead but who lacks a skillset to actually do so, that must be like living a nightmare.

 

[MojoDublin]

She's British when it suits her.
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and Irish when she wants to skip the Que in USA

she travels with all 3 passports