You know, I’ve been thinking the same thing about PhiPhi of late. If he’s running around doing all of the responsible things that she should be doing, then he is an asset to her because she can sit in her ass more. He does seem to bring a bit of levity to most situations and seems to make level headed choices. I’ll bet the family would be thrilled she has a babysitter and he fulfills her demands rather than them having to do it, so I am sure they are nice to him. He’s neutralizing the crazy. Sad thing is, he’s trading his chance to be normal and have a family with children, and a career. Hope he knows what he’s sacrificing.