^ I suppose slutty is not politically correct or feminist I agree, but when someone shows a picture of themselves on Instagram with a dress so short while crossing her legs and it’s a cm from showing her fanny, there’s no polite way to put it.
Obviously no one knows whether she has a personality disorder or not you can only speculate and of course I can’t diagnose her, only a therapist can do that. The speculation is only done as a means to explain or understand certain behaviour, not to condemn that person, no one is fully healthy anyway, we all have mental health problems. But people speculate about everything else about her, I don’t see what is so terrible about questioning someone’s mental health. On the Trisha Paytas thread on GG people speculate all the time about her mental health and no one cares.
Shane Dawson is doing an 8 part series on Jake Paul speculating whether he’s a sociopath or not, would you call that dangerous or harmful then? Lots of people have speculated if Princess Diana had BPD for years on TV ffs and she was never diagnosed. Shane also was speculating how many YTrs were narcissistic or sociopathic, while showing clips of certain YTrs, is that harmful or diagnosing people or is it just openly discussing mental health? I suppose people like Paytas and the Paul bros are more out there so people think it’s ok to speculate about their mental health but not about others, which doesn’t make sense to me. When people’s behaviour is starting to show signs of going off the rails people are gonna speculate, plus if they take drugs it’s going to exaggerate any mental health problems they have. It’s about explaining, not trying to stigmatise, things like this should be talked about. For instance I think what Shane is doing is interesting and needs to be explored and talked about, it’s educational. It’s better to talk about things rather than make certain subjects off limits or taboo. So therefore I don’t think you should try to shut people down when they want to speculate or have a debate on this topic, especially as this just a small gossip thread. If Shane can get millions of views speculating on YTrs mental health or people on tv can discuss Princess Di’s mental health or the Paytas thread can do it then what’s so precious about this little thread or Tanya?
The only person this would be harmful to is Tanya and I very much doubt she even knows this thread exists. Also how would it be harmful to Tanya exactly? Whether Tanya has a disorder or not, everyone including her can benefit from open discussion on mental health. What you really mean is it’s not nice or polite to discuss those kind of things, well I think being nice is what stops things from being out in the open and discussed. Your attitude is it shouldn’t even be discussed end of, I think that’s like ignoring the elephant in the room cos it’s impolite or might hurt someone’s feelings.
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