Talia Oatway & Aaron Chalmers #5 Aaron can't be arsed to be a dad, meanwhile Talia's all ad ad ad

[e.l.lofthouse]

I think the vague posting about the baby is attention seeking, but at the same time I feel absolutely awful for the girl. Whether she’s done things in the past or not no one deserves to be left alone with 4 children, one of which is a newborn baby with a disability that’s going to require surgeries. I hope she takes those kids and runs, he is an abusive piece of tit and those kids deserve better than that.

See, I thought that but whilst I do still think she's screaming for attention, I think she's also desperate for attention from someone who will actually speak to her and ask if she's okay.

I’m not a fan of either of them but my heart is actually breaking for her. Imagine having to deal with that grade A prick walking out within days of bringing a poorly baby home from hospital. Her head must be absolutely fucked, I don’t know how she’s able to manage her emotions and hormones on top of looking after 4 kids. Regardless of what people may think she defo comes across as a good mum and I hope she takes her strength from that

Is this his way of saying I was fried and said tit I meant but didn’t actually mean to say out loud, please forgive me AGAIN. Cretin.

My eldest was born early and my partner hadn't yet finished work and he still had 3 days to do. He was in the next room and I still felt lonely so duck knows how she feels. It's horrific. He's an actual bleep and I sincerely hope she leaves him and proves that she's stronger and he realises he royally fucked up.

 

[To cat lady]

Talia should not be moving post partum with four children, one with additional needs. It’s hell moving as it is without four kids in tow
Why isn’t Aaron fuckin leaving? I hope to god she’s going to her mums and she stays there.

 

[Rubywoooo]

It really seems like it's on her terms this time, I get the impression Aaron is crawling after initially deleting pics etc in temper but I think she's posting the removal things etc to try and scare him, I'm in no doubt they'll end up back together by next week. Both as bad as each other.

 

[e.l.lofthouse]

I don't think it'll end well and I think it'll end in the next few weeks. He doesn't want that new baby it's as simple (and heartbreaking) as that. He's obviously struggling coming to terms with the additional needs and decided to duck off and leave Talia to deal with it. I hope she leaves and fucks him off

 

[Nonottoday]

Her posts are screaming attention, I don’t like either but Aaron has really set the goal seriously low! Even for him.
I have absolutely no doubt they’ll be loved up by next week. She’s not moving, it’s all to scare him. If I was her I wouldn’t budge if I’m honest, why should she move her children out of there own home. Rinse the end for the pennies he has left
But she won’t because it’s all for the gram and they’ll be lovers again next week.

 

[e.l.lofthouse]

Her posts are screaming attention, I don’t like either but Aaron has really set the goal seriously low! Even for him.
I have absolutely no doubt they’ll be loved up by next week. She’s not moving, it’s all to scare him. If I was her I wouldn’t budge if I’m honest, why should she move her children out of there own home. Rinse the end for the pennies he has left
But she won’t because it’s all for the gram and they’ll be lovers again next week.

If its his house, surely she has to leave? If her name isn't on it?

 

[Nonottoday]

If its his house, surely she has to leave? If her name isn't on it?

Not if they’ve been together in the house 6 months I believe.

 

[bing bong]

I sincerely hope she finds the strength to leave and go back down south with her family, she clearly needs them more than Aaron. Staying there only gives him leverage and an element of control

 

[To cat lady]

If its his house, surely she has to leave? If her name isn't on it?

If she has rights to the home or not it’s irrelevant. He should want her and the children to have the house. He shouldn’t want them to have to move. Astonishing how selfish he is

 

[bing bong]

If she has rights to the home or not it’s irrelevant. He should want her and the children to have the house. He shouldn’t want them to have to move. Astonishing how selfish he is

I honestly think it’s a control thing that he can use against her and threaten her with especially after her post about emotional abuse

 

[pixelsdream]

I don't think it'll end well and I think it'll end in the next few weeks. He doesn't want that new baby it's as simple (and heartbreaking) as that. He's obviously struggling coming to terms with the additional needs and decided to duck off and leave Talia to deal with it. I hope she leaves and fucks him off

My ex kicked me out once he knew my son was going to be missing a limb, I spent the rest of my pregnancy fighting for him and first 9 months of his life, I wasted all that time for nothing, then one day he came to mine and said he wanted to work things out and something in me just clicked and I said no I dont want you! best decision I ever made, I can sort of sympathise with talia she's probably tried her hardest to get him to stay, but it's so much easier to walk away when you're a man, I just hope Aaron don't do what my sperms donor did and give up on them kids or more so Oakley.

 

[Keepingupappearances]

I always thought if you had children with someone you wouldn't have to move out if it was their home. But unless you have financially contributed to the mortgage or whatever and have proof of payments, i dont think you have a leg to stand on. I wonder does he even own the home, it could be rented!!! And she may not beable to afford it on her own. Sorry but unless its her choice to leave hes even more of a dick. No bloke would turf a woman out with kids and a new born with additional needs.

 

[Chattymamabear]

It'll be such an upheaval short term to move all those kids but they will adjust and adapt. Hospital will transfer oakleys appointments and she can be home with her mum who won't let her down. Long term it'll be her best decision yet

 

[Hyacinthsquash]

Thing is if she’s facilitated the break up then she will be the one to leave. If she doesn’t then Aaron will just come home to the house. Technically if it’s only in his name (and they’re not married) she doesn’t have any rights unless she’s gone through court all ready. It takes ages for these kind of matters to go to court if she’s trying to stay in a house in his name. Not saying it’s morally right but unfortunately if she wants a quick break she will need to leave. But yeah if he had an ounce of decency he would say he will stay somewhere else whilst they figure out a long term plan.

I don’t think she’s moving south with her mum as she’s asked for companies to move within Newcastle.

 

[iLoveNectarines]

There is no specialist for Oakleys syndrome at the rvi (if it's what we think it is), he will probably be seen at Alder Hey.

 

[e.l.lofthouse]

Yeah my partner home(where we all live) is in his name until we move next week, then it's our house but he's ALWAYS said that if we broke up and we were still here, he'd leave until a long term plan was sorted and I'd stay here (with the kids. If no kidw then id obv leave). It was his house for YEARS before he met me and I'd never take it from him. Whether it's a bad break up or not any self respecting man would tell her to stay

 

[Opinionated]

Do ppl not get it??? She reads on here so she’s giving you what you want lol. Ppl are saying have they split up she posts cryptic clues. Ppl are saying she needs to move back down to her family she posts asking for removal companies. She knows what shes doing and ppl are falling for it.

 

[bing bong]

So she’s put on her stories she’s “moving home very soon” we’ll soon see

 

[PollyPocket196]

Just saw her story about moving home and I have to say I’m relieved. I can’t imagine going through this with a new baby, 3 other children and no family support. She is definitely doing the right thing. Who reckons Aaron isn’t going with her?

 

[Hello2468]

Did anyone see the now deleted story of baby in the pram? Not sure if she posted accidentally but he is beautiful and she shouldn’t be ashamed. I Really hope she holds the strength to move back with mum and be around her family as they are clearly very supportive.