Talia Oatway & Aaron Chalmers #5 Aaron can't be arsed to be a dad, meanwhile Talia's all ad ad ad

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Almighty geordie sniffer Aaron and grimson chin talia still on and off
 
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Did she purposefully say what was wrong but cut off the video so she didn’t actually announce it?
 
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New title :Talia and Aaron still love an Ad, but too busy scribbling out faces to be mum and dad.
 
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I don’t understand why Aaron can’t stay over night in the hospital it’s great her dad is coming up but could he not stay with her at home and send Aaron to do night at hospital
Would you want to leave that scum alone in a hospital full of drugs and nurses !!! The wee babe would be ignored 😞😞
 
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Talia might as well leave the baby alone tonight for the nurses to look after. Her dad might be related but he is a stranger to that baby. When they’re so young they rely on knowing their mum/dads voices and their scent. Poor wee thing will all ready be out of sorts in hospital and now being left with a stranger 😞 it’s all so sad. I do agree Talia needs a break and should be able to spend the night at home but Aaron should be there with his son. Inexcusable.
 
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Someone mentioned on here about using oakleys middle name but not the other kids, now … 👀
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I’m thinking of starting a family soon and I’m not gonna lie or terrifies me that the baby could be born with something like this without any prior knowledge. I don’t follow talia or Aaron long enough to know why they’re problematic but I can imagine that would be a huge shock for your baby to be born with something wrong and you had no idea. Is there anyway you can test or what not for what their baby has? Xx
 
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I’m thinking of starting a family soon and I’m not gonna lie or terrifies me that the baby could be born with something like this without any prior knowledge. I don’t follow talia or Aaron long enough to know why they’re problematic but I can imagine that would be a huge shock for your baby to be born with something wrong and you had no idea. Is there anyway you can test or what not for what their baby has? Xx
There is no specific test for Apert syndrome. You have your blood tests after your 12 week scan for screening of Down syndrome and I believe it covers some other abnormalities (I may be wrong) but not everything would show up on scans or tests. If they did spot something in a scan they would usually refer you for more specific tests (Nipt etc) but again not everything shows up. Sometimes the tests aren’t accurate as well, my friend was told she was high risk of Down syndrome but baby was actually fine.
 
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I’m thinking of starting a family soon and I’m not gonna lie or terrifies me that the baby could be born with something like this without any prior knowledge. I don’t follow talia or Aaron long enough to know why they’re problematic but I can imagine that would be a huge shock for your baby to be born with something wrong and you had no idea. Is there anyway you can test or what not for what their baby has? Xx
Usually these things are picked up at the 20 week scan, I've no idea how they were checked and seemingly discharged, once things look in any way abnormal on a scan more tests and bloods will be done, I'm in Ireland and that's how it's done here, a family member has been through this, there was a few things not right in the big scan, not aperts, but a similar syndrome, all confirmed about two weeks after concerns were first raised. X
 
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So ppl have asked whether they knew before birth and she just skirted round the subject you can’t tell by her body language. Surely if you know you’re going to do a video to tell ppl you know what you’re going to say instead of the long pauses and not looking at the camera all signs of deceit. I don’t know why she’s bothering, just keep it all off social media if you’re not going to say what ops hes having or what he’s got what’s the point in giving half a story so you have to constantly watch what you say?? And as for leaving the baby with her dad so she can go home and shag Aaron coz he’s getting itchy feet, she’s disgusting
 
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I’m thinking of starting a family soon and I’m not gonna lie or terrifies me that the baby could be born with something like this without any prior knowledge. I don’t follow talia or Aaron long enough to know why they’re problematic but I can imagine that would be a huge shock for your baby to be born with something wrong and you had no idea. Is there anyway you can test or what not for what their baby has? Xx
My baby was born with a rare non genetic condition that effect his bowels and kidneys and multiple surgeries that we had no idea about and does not show up on scans. Unfortunately it is just something you have to be prepared for when you have a baby. There are lots of things that do show up on scans though at 20 weeks they check stuff like that. X
 
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Usually these things are picked up at the 20 week scan, I've no idea how they were checked and seemingly discharged, once things look in any way abnormal on a scan more tests and bloods will be done, I'm in Ireland and that's how it's done here, a family member has been through this, there was a few things not right in the big scan, not aperts, but a similar syndrome, all confirmed about two weeks after concerns were first raised. X
Can I ask this isn’t me being rude or ignorant, but would the parents be given the option to terminate a pregnancy because of this. I don’t know anything about apert syndrome like life expectancy or anything ?
 
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Annoyed she's now saying they were discharged from fetal medicine... Maybe if she turned up for appointments they would have spotted something. You can really tell by the fact she's not looking at the camera when she's saying this it's all lies!
 
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As someone who had a birth defect picked up at my anomaly scan and went on to have multiple scans with fetal medicine I find it really hard to believe that fetal medicine just discharged her, ok lots of things are missed on scans but the fact something was detected and they past it on to specialists who have advanced knowledge on complications in pregnancy - don’t believe it
 
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But odd her family from down south have been coming up to help but no mention of his helping?

She left him when her mum came up! So hopefully she will leave him again when her dad comes up! Absolute joke that Aaron can always stay up there but he just don’t? Why can’t he stay the night up there so she can go be with her other 3 kids? Instead of just seeing Aaron with his 2! 100% we will see the girl on her story tonight 🙄
Leave him for 3 days, fake moving then blame if on the estate agents again 🤣 I genuinely think the girl stays with Talia's friends when Aaron's home
 
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I don’t get how she can leave the baby 😞 I’ve had my children in hospital not as poorly as Oakley is and never did I leave them I spent 2 weeks at there bedside didn’t give a tit how I smelt my other 3 children come to the hospital to see me everyday .. the only person I would trust would be my mum and I honestly wouldn’t be able to settle at home knowing I had a sick baby in hospital .. maybe it’s just me 🤷🏼‍♀️and she’s gone straight home and done ADS 😤
 
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I’m thinking of starting a family soon and I’m not gonna lie or terrifies me that the baby could be born with something like this without any prior knowledge. I don’t follow talia or Aaron long enough to know why they’re problematic but I can imagine that would be a huge shock for your baby to be born with something wrong and you had no idea. Is there anyway you can test or what not for what their baby has? Xx
You can’t test for everything- many conditions will show on scans but my daughter was born deaf- no family history so was a complete surprise. What I will say is that you have a superhuman ability to do whatever is needed and it just becomes life :) She’s amazing and I wouldn’t change anything about her. I’m saying this because even if something happens, life is still great so don’t let that put the fear in you ahead of starting a family. 99% of the time the baby is completely healthy.
 
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You can’t test for everything- many conditions will show on scans but my daughter was born deaf- no family history so was a complete surprise. What I will say is that you have a superhuman ability to do whatever is needed and it just becomes life :) She’s amazing and I wouldn’t change anything about her. I’m saying this because even if something happens, life is still great so don’t let that put the fear in you ahead of starting a family. 99% of the time the baby is completely healthy.
Awww I love this!! I have always wanted to learn sighs language and teach it to my child because I think that everyone should know it 😊
 
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