If Oakley is having a tracheostomy then he'd definitely qualify for way more hours, during the day and also every night as its 24 hour care in case it dislodges.
I definitely think he's got Continuing Care in place already which wouldn't take too long to up his care package. Continuing Care have trained staff who already know how to care for those with tracheostomys, seizures etc. I doubt it would take them long to up the hours I'm convinced Talia already receives, so if Oakley does go to Aaron's after discharge, he would have more than enough support coming from respite and also his family who seem to really want a relationship with all the boys.
Aaron wouldn't need to pay for a carer, Oakley qualifies for this from the NHS.
I cannot remember if Cpap also qualifies for more hours from reading the criteria in the past but I am sure it does.
If all three boys go to Aaron's they'd all definitely be well supported and Oakley may even qualify for whatever Newcastles children hospice is. I know to qualify respite at our hospice it can either be life limiting illness or life threatening and I'd say Oakleys breathing would fall in that category.