I honestly absolutely hate my useless family. The amount of hatred I have for these people cannot even be verbalized.
I’ve already mentioned on numerous occasions how I was helping my family with the paperwork after my dad’s death in December despite having been estranged from them for 6 years prior to that. I helped with the legalities, hiring a notary and even financially. All this to support my abusive and narcissistic mother who cannot fend for herself despite having three adults above 18 living with her (my three siblings).
Fast forward, I flew in August to sort out a few things at the notary and specifically stated I wouldn’t have time to see her. I got a POA and told the notary she wouldn’t be able to come. Then she ambushes me right at the notary’s door after the appointment, doesn’t bother to ask me how my flight went or how I’m doing. She just said “what did the notary said about me getting my money”. I tried to explain, she started getting argumentative with me, I told her I had enough and walked away. Mind you, I had just written off a couple of hundredsin notary fees for her to her her money from the estate when I’m getting zero. My siblings were there watching the scene dileny
Fast forward, I leave, fly home and my sister sends me an email saying they’ll refund me. I don’t respond. Two weeks later, I get an email from my sister saying they paid the property tax (not my business, don’t care at all). I respond with a OK 10 days later.
A week later today, she sends me an email saying “Here is the paperwork we receive in the mail, it’s for mom, please fill them in”. The paperwork has zero to do with me!!! Not only did she not acknowledge the scene in front of the notary and has been ignoring the money she owes me, but she seriously thinks I’m going to keep bending over backwards helping with every letter they get in the post after what happened? She must be having a laugh. They really treat me like their secretary when they’re all grown adults and can fill in form themselves!!!
I’m not a violent person and I’m usually calm, but I got so mad after seeing this email that I slammed my laptop on the floor (it was already broken falling apart and ready to be ditched, no loss there).
Honestly. They have no self awareness at all. I’ve been dealing with all this paperwork for months and I have a life of my own. I very obviously put the silent treatment on and they don’t even realize. They just keep bombarding me with more things to do for them. I hate them so much.
I’ve already mentioned on numerous occasions how I was helping my family with the paperwork after my dad’s death in December despite having been estranged from them for 6 years prior to that. I helped with the legalities, hiring a notary and even financially. All this to support my abusive and narcissistic mother who cannot fend for herself despite having three adults above 18 living with her (my three siblings).
Fast forward, I flew in August to sort out a few things at the notary and specifically stated I wouldn’t have time to see her. I got a POA and told the notary she wouldn’t be able to come. Then she ambushes me right at the notary’s door after the appointment, doesn’t bother to ask me how my flight went or how I’m doing. She just said “what did the notary said about me getting my money”. I tried to explain, she started getting argumentative with me, I told her I had enough and walked away. Mind you, I had just written off a couple of hundredsin notary fees for her to her her money from the estate when I’m getting zero. My siblings were there watching the scene dileny
Fast forward, I leave, fly home and my sister sends me an email saying they’ll refund me. I don’t respond. Two weeks later, I get an email from my sister saying they paid the property tax (not my business, don’t care at all). I respond with a OK 10 days later.
A week later today, she sends me an email saying “Here is the paperwork we receive in the mail, it’s for mom, please fill them in”. The paperwork has zero to do with me!!! Not only did she not acknowledge the scene in front of the notary and has been ignoring the money she owes me, but she seriously thinks I’m going to keep bending over backwards helping with every letter they get in the post after what happened? She must be having a laugh. They really treat me like their secretary when they’re all grown adults and can fill in form themselves!!!
I’m not a violent person and I’m usually calm, but I got so mad after seeing this email that I slammed my laptop on the floor (it was already broken falling apart and ready to be ditched, no loss there).
Honestly. They have no self awareness at all. I’ve been dealing with all this paperwork for months and I have a life of my own. I very obviously put the silent treatment on and they don’t even realize. They just keep bombarding me with more things to do for them. I hate them so much.