Jesus Wept… what mother in the country gets on like this fool! Cop onto yourself girl.. why dream feed a baby who is not keen on a bottle anyway? Soo.. he was lying laughing in his cot? Let him at it… critter probably woke up and realised he’s stuck with you for the next 18 years!! If he wasn’t crying, wasn’t unsettled and was just laughing.. why the drama? I know I would have stayed in my bed and he could laugh away.. leave him to self settle for Gods sake! Count yourself lucky you absolute goat! U have a healthy baby, a nice warm home and a job, with a support network.. lots out there have one, two or maybe three children and none of the above.. they get on with it and don’t feel the need (or have the time) to moan and whinge about the activities of their kids!