She simply does not need a live in au pair and is going to exploit this poor employee to be a housekeeper, cleaner, personal assistant.
My work schedule means my family needs help before and after school. My kids have a variety of activities to get to so after school care has never been suitable. I have a fabulous nanny who works 7:30 to 9am four days a week, and 3:30 to 6:30am three days a week. I trust her with the care of my children and don’t expect her to do a single task outside of duties directly relating to the kids. She doesn’t cook, shop, clean or do any menial tasks, because I’ve hired a nanny and not a slave. Sophie’s blurring the lines of employment roles and messing it all up even further by wanting this poor person to live with them is so manipulative and concerning. She’s quite disgusting and predatory.