Raising three kids is only going to get more expensive for them - it's easy when they are wee, you can buy supermarket clothes but as they get older you are under pressure to buy them the more expensive trainers, designer labels etc, and of course Callie will get only the best and whatever she demands to be the same as her friends. Where does that money come from? More overtime and on-call hours? If I saw my sons being used as a meal ticket the way she uses her husband I definitely would not be shy about having a word with her but as people have said she would turn on the waterworks and the mental health card would be out!!