I’ve a cousin like this. Two boys and every weekend spent with the grandparents, who still work full time, whilst they go and live it up like a newly married couple. The grandparents bought a holiday home by the beach and now said cousin and husband are in it sans kids so they can get some time away, it’s now been four weekends on the hop. I’ve just told my aunt and uncle to pick a week in August and head over to my place in Spain for some R&R but stipulated that the grandkids couldn’t go. The cousin called me up and said it was very unfair and why have they never been invited. They have the perfect little neutrally dressed family on Insta but the grandparents do all the raising. Grandparents too afraid to say something in case it’s causes a row and they cut contact.I’m so done with people having babies purely for the gram and I’m not just talking SINEAD and all the scourges of influencer society I’ve a few friends that are the same and just the same as sinead they’re never sad or stressed or their babies don’t have days where they don’t stop crying and they’re always out and about and In kilkee at the weekend or would it be that the grandparents actually raise these kids and the mamas stand in for photos