For her sake, I hope this works out, but oof. The reconciliation wasn't too surprising tbh, seems like it was heading in that direction, but to suddenly get back together and move to another state in a matter of days? Wasn't it 2 weeks ago that she made a vlog about how she wasn't sure she'd take him back right no
I completely agree. To be honest, the fact that she started taking money from people and suggesting they buy her a coffee had me suspicious. She talks about being in a bad financial situation and then, out of the blue, she goes and buys a car.
Giving her the benefit of the doubt because there’s no way you can watch those videos, especially the first few right after it happened, and think it was a scam or something. If that was an act, she should make a career out of it.
(Though I’m willing to concede it’s totally possible she hasn’t been upfront about everything, especially in her more recent videos where she’s been in better spirits. And I get why people are upset they gave money to help her get therapy and she’s had 1, maybe 2 sessions with her therapist before seemingly dropping it. Hopefully she’s already looking for a new therapist in AK or her current one does virtual sessions)
But this entire thing has been quite the whirlwind. She’s gone from crying that her life is over to saying she’s doesn’t know if she’d take him back and that she’s excited to be independent to suddenly being back together and moving to Arkansas in, what? A month or so? I like her and hope this is for the best, but it seems like nothing has truly, really changed. How can it, and how can she, after so little time? chances are high that things are going to go back to how they were before all of this went down, and chances are good he’s going to leave her again once the “we’re back together!” fog lifts and he realizes they’re back in their old pattern.
I really hope I’m wrong though. I hope she’s willing and able to stick through going to therapy and working on herself.