Simone is absolutely normal - actually most toddlers do this (in relation to “chores”) my kids saw me (3&5) yesterday cleaning the walls & then they both wanted cloths to help. My kids used to love helping me put washing in the machine, washing the dishes, pulling the weeds. For them it’s fun…I’m sure when they are 8/9/10 it won’t be as fun for them and I’ll struggle to get them to do these mundane tasks
& what kid doesn’t like helping mum in the kitchen when there are bowls & spoons to lick at the end. But I guess for Asher if he weren’t to help you with all the chores then he probably wouldn’t spend anytime with you since your life revolves around cleaning (in between you 8-10 hr work days).